We Don't Talk About That
One Family's Journey to the Other Side of Tragedy
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Pub Date Oct 15 2026 | Archive Date Sep 6 2026
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Description
When Amanda Schoepp was thirteen, she took a sleeper train with her grandfather from Los Angeles to New Orleans. On that trip, he shared how his parents died. It wasn't cancer or old age or pickled livers-it was murder-suicide.
For him to share this was rare because, following the 1963 tragedy, an unspoken agreement became oath among immediate family: Never discuss it.
Avoidance was seemingly easier than facing the pain, and the elders passed that belief on through generations.
Until now.
Leveraging a decade of research and interviews with her wonderfully dysfunctional Cajun family, Schoepp illuminates for the first time the realities of her lineage, exploring the complexities of generational trauma and the ways a singular event can shape the future.
We Don't Talk About That follows her Southern family's overnight upheaval, the unbounding resilience that finds its way through the cracks, and how Schoepp uniquely fits into the greater patchwork of it all.
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Available Editions
| EDITION | Paperback |
| ISBN | 9798897473151 |
| PRICE | $19.95 (USD) |
| PAGES | 248 |
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Featured Reviews
I read this book incredibly fast. As a Cajun, myself, I absolutely loved everything about this book! I love stories like this that look back into the past and family life/secrets. This is definitely one of the best books I've read this year!
Very interesting book about a family tragedy.
The writing style is natural and follows the history of the authors family.
It was a very interesting read and I recommed, however it felt like this book was for family not the wider public. I wish the themes had been more explores, such as domestic violence, PTSD and family trauma. It was briefly discussed further than their family in the last few chapters.
Thanks for the ARC from Köehler Books!
Melissa P, Reviewer
I felt for this family. It was heartfelt and heartbreaking. I found it hard to follow at times. Even though the trauma was hard, the author did a great job writing this story for their family.
This was a good read about a family that endured a horrific loss in the early 1960s when their dad killed their mom and then himself after a night out. The four offspring felt the effects in many ways, and most of the family just buried it and didn’t talk about it at all. Many of the coming generations didn’t learn about it until after they became adults, because it was kept so quiet in the family. In later years, the family could see the generational trauma and how it affected so many of them.
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