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Was This In The Plan
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Pub Date
Jul 30 2026
| Archive Date
Jul 30 2026
Description
From muddy Glastonbury fields and campervan adventures to children’s wards and cancer treatments, life was never ordinary for Stephanie Nimmo and her family. But through heartbreak, uncertainty and unimaginable change, they chose to keep saying yes to life. When Stephanie’s daughter Daisy was born with a rare, life-limiting condition, everything changed overnight. What followed was a journey of resilience, motherhood, love and learning to find joy in the middle of chaos.
From muddy Glastonbury fields and campervan adventures to children’s wards and cancer treatments, life was never ordinary for Stephanie Nimmo and her family. But through heartbreak, uncertainty and...
Description
From muddy Glastonbury fields and campervan adventures to children’s wards and cancer treatments, life was never ordinary for Stephanie Nimmo and her family. But through heartbreak, uncertainty and unimaginable change, they chose to keep saying yes to life. When Stephanie’s daughter Daisy was born with a rare, life-limiting condition, everything changed overnight. What followed was a journey of resilience, motherhood, love and learning to find joy in the middle of chaos.
A Note From the Publisher
Stephanie Nimmo is a writer, communications specialist and campaigner. Originally from South Wales, she has lived in South London for more than three decades. A former international marketing professional, Stephanie’s life changed dramatically
when her youngest daughter Daisy was born with a rare, life-limiting genetic condition.
She became a full-time parent carer for 12 years, experiences that led her into advocacy, writing and work focused on improving understanding between healthcare professionals, carers and patients.
She wrote the award-winning blog Was This in the Plan? and continues to write on caregiving, bereavement, disability, healthcare communication and life after loss in publications including The Guardian, The Independent, The BMJ and The Sunday Times.
In 2023, her book Anything for My Child, was published by JKP.
She now works as a communication specialist within the UK health and social care system while continuing to advocate for children’s palliative care, disability rights and unpaid carers.
Stephanie Nimmo is a writer, communications specialist and campaigner. Originally from South Wales, she has lived in South London for more than three decades. A former international marketing...
A Note From the Publisher
Stephanie Nimmo is a writer, communications specialist and campaigner. Originally from South Wales, she has lived in South London for more than three decades. A former international marketing professional, Stephanie’s life changed dramatically
when her youngest daughter Daisy was born with a rare, life-limiting genetic condition.
She became a full-time parent carer for 12 years, experiences that led her into advocacy, writing and work focused on improving understanding between healthcare professionals, carers and patients.
She wrote the award-winning blog Was This in the Plan? and continues to write on caregiving, bereavement, disability, healthcare communication and life after loss in publications including The Guardian, The Independent, The BMJ and The Sunday Times.
In 2023, her book Anything for My Child, was published by JKP.
She now works as a communication specialist within the UK health and social care system while continuing to advocate for children’s palliative care, disability rights and unpaid carers.
Advance Praise
“An essential guide to grief, resilience and self care.”
- Helen Serafinowicz (Motherland and Amandland Writer)
Raw, honest, heartbreaking and uplifting in equal measure, Stephanie’s memoir has
touched readers around the world with its deeply human reminder that life does not
have to be perfect to still be meaningful. Includes a foreword from Jo Whiley.
“An essential guide to grief, resilience and self care.”
- Helen Serafinowicz (Motherland and Amandland Writer)
Raw, honest, heartbreaking and uplifting in equal measure, Stephanie’s memoir has...
Advance Praise
“An essential guide to grief, resilience and self care.”
- Helen Serafinowicz (Motherland and Amandland Writer)
Raw, honest, heartbreaking and uplifting in equal measure, Stephanie’s memoir has
touched readers around the world with its deeply human reminder that life does not
have to be perfect to still be meaningful. Includes a foreword from Jo Whiley.
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9781913835484 |
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£13.99 (GBP)
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| PAGES |
240
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Available Editions
| EDITION |
Paperback |
| ISBN |
9781913835484 |
| PRICE |
£13.99 (GBP)
|
| PAGES |
240
|
Available on NetGalley
NetGalley Reader
(PDF)
NetGalley Shelf App
(PDF)
Send to Kindle (PDF)
Download (PDF)
Available to Buy
Buy on BN.com
Buy on Bookshop.org
*This page contains affiliate links, so we may earn a small commission when you make a purchase through links on our site at no additional cost to you.
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Femke M, Reviewer
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“It’s a bit shit, isn’t it” really summed it up, and that’s a big fat understatement.
As usual, I only read a little bit of the synopsis of the book. I knew it was about Stephanie and the challenges that came with motherhood when you have a child with special needs, but I did not capture the whole picture ahead of reading. That’s why I came to chapter 15 and really asked myself “how much can one family handle, really?” and that just kept repeating whilst reading. When I reached chapter 26 I kept hoping for a miracle; I kept hoping that things would turn around and it would get a slightly happier ending. It shouldn’t surprise you that I was in tears, full on sobbing, the next chapter. The whole story is so honest about the challenges she faced, not only with everyone’s special needs but also with the ‘regular’ needs. I was so immensely thankful for the epilogue and the ‘chapter 2’. It’s not my story, at all, but it healed me <3
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Femke M, Reviewer
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“It’s a bit shit, isn’t it” really summed it up, and that’s a big fat understatement.
As usual, I only read a little bit of the synopsis of the book. I knew it was about Stephanie and the challenges that came with motherhood when you have a child with special needs, but I did not capture the whole picture ahead of reading. That’s why I came to chapter 15 and really asked myself “how much can one family handle, really?” and that just kept repeating whilst reading. When I reached chapter 26 I kept hoping for a miracle; I kept hoping that things would turn around and it would get a slightly happier ending. It shouldn’t surprise you that I was in tears, full on sobbing, the next chapter. The whole story is so honest about the challenges she faced, not only with everyone’s special needs but also with the ‘regular’ needs. I was so immensely thankful for the epilogue and the ‘chapter 2’. It’s not my story, at all, but it healed me <3
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