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Cartography of Loss

A Widowhood in Essays

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Pub Date Dec 1 2026 | Archive Date Nov 21 2026


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For fans of Jenny Lisk’s Future Widow, a tender memoir-in-essays about rebuilding after losing a spouse to brain cancer, Cartography of Loss explores caregiving and reveals how life after loss reshapes everything, even new love. 

When her husband is diagnosed with glioblastoma, Karen Paul becomes a full-time caregiver overnight. Their marriage, the landscape of which had always shown fractures, is instantly and radically transformed. Years after the long vigil of illness and his death, Karen faces the uneasy recalibration that follows and a new identity she never asked for: widow. 

Told in three parts, Cartography of Loss chronicles the very particular and personal—from hospital corridors and hospice visits to tattoos and the strange circumstance of falling in love again. Along the journey, readers bear witness through stages of early widowhood, life’s continuance in spite of unbearable grief, and the echoes of losses compounded over a lifetime. 

Exploring how a widow must learn to map out her life in new ways after devastating loss, Paul’s is more than a grief memoir, it’s a clear-eyed, often funny exploration of how loss rearranges a life—and proof that even after the unimaginable, there is a way forward, one essay at a time.
For fans of Jenny Lisk’s Future Widow, a tender memoir-in-essays about rebuilding after losing a spouse to brain cancer, Cartography of Loss explores caregiving and reveals how life after loss...

A Note From the Publisher

KAREN PAUL has written about caregiving, parenting, marriage, death, loss, and grief for outlets including The New York Times, The Washington Post, The Boston Globe, Lilith, Modern Loss, Open Secrets, and Motherwell, as well as literary magazines and anthologies. Her short story “Vertigo” won the Lilith Short Fiction Contest. Karen holds an MFA in creative nonfiction from Vermont College of Fine Arts and facilitates grief-writing workshops locally and online. She lives in Takoma Park, Maryland.

KAREN PAUL has written about caregiving, parenting, marriage, death, loss, and grief for outlets including The New York Times, The Washington Post, The Boston Globe, Lilith, Modern Loss, Open...


Advance Praise

“…a clear-eyed, compassionate meditation on how grief shapes a life…traces the long arc of loss across generations and shows how we learn to learn to live with what can’t be undone. Her voice is honest and wry; a companion for anyone navigating sorrow and seeking a way forward.”—REBECCA SOFFER, bestselling author of The Modern Loss Handbook

“Paul chronicles unimaginable loss with courage….profound...”—SHERYL SANDBERG, founder and author of Lean In and Option B

“An eloquently composed, gritty, and emotionally challenging read."—KIRKUS REVIEWS

“…a gift.”—LESLIE GRAY STREETER, author of Black Widow

“…the rare grief book that tells the truth: that love, resentment, devotion, exhaustion, dark humor, and bone-deep loneliness can all coexist in the same hour. I will be pressing this book into the hands of mourners, caregivers, and the friends who want to help them….[it] gently insists that every feeling along the way is heartbreakingly normal.”—RABBI SHIRA STUTMAN, author of The Jewish Way to a Good Life and co-host of Chutzpod


“…a clear-eyed, compassionate meditation on how grief shapes a life…traces the long arc of loss across generations and shows how we learn to learn to live with what can’t be undone. Her voice is...


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ISBN 9798896363989
PRICE $18.99 (USD)
PAGES 232

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BISAC Codes

FAM014000 FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Death, Grief, Bereavement
BIO022000 BIOGRAPHY & AUTOBIOGRAPHY / Women
LCO010000 LITERARY COLLECTIONS / Essays