Unfortunately, I had to DNF this title at 35 percent. While I appreciate "How Do I Sexy?"'s attempt to de-mystify queer (and specifically trans) sexuality, I was bothered by the tonal inconsistency of the work. Throughout the chapters, I was wondering who the target reader was. The writing seemed too simplistic,. While is commendable that the author aimed to make the book as inclusive as possible, I also found myself distracted by terms constantly being in bold when they were first introduced. And they weren't niche terms, either; the author put "cishet" and "nonmonogamous" in bold, which again leads me to wonder: who was this written for?

I think baby queers in the young or new adult age bracket might pick up valuable lessons from "How Do I Sexy?", but for the rest of us, it would serve us better to read this as as condensed blog post.

Thank you to NetGalley for providing an advanced copy of this book.