I first learned about stoicism in a philosophy class last summer, so when I saw this book’s title, I requested it right away. The author breaks down stoicism in a way that feels clear and digestible, weaving in quotes that stick with you long after reading. One that stayed with me: “Most of us have positive illusions of ourselves.” Another: “We think we are somebody when in all likelihood we are nobody at all.”

This book reminded me of something I often forget—I carry a sense of entitlement, and I cling too tightly to expectations. Stoicism offers a gentle but firm reminder: nothing truly belongs to us, and attachment only deepens our suffering. I found myself pausing often to reflect, realizing how often I create disappointment by expecting more than reality can give.

Overall, this is a great introduction to stoicism, especially for those who are new to the philosophy. It’s a thoughtful, accessible starting point.

Thank you, NetGalley and Cider Mill Press, for the ARC.