The Myth of the American Dream
Reflections on Affluence, Autonomy, Safety, and Power
by D. L. Mayfield
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Pub Date 05 May 2020 | Archive Date 15 Jul 2020
"Simply excellent! A wonderful mix of captivating personal experiences, biblical teaching, and probing structural analysis. Mayfield gently draws us in as she candidly shares her doubts and struggles, and she vigorously challenges us with her powerful summons to see and change systemic injustice. Unless the evangelical world begins to understand the fundamental critique of this book and truly repent and change, we do not deserve to continue to exist. A must read."
-Ron Sider, distinguished professor emeritus of theology, holistic ministry and public policy, Palmer Seminary at Eastern University, author of Rich Christians in an Age of Hunger
"In my work with immigrants to the US, I find most came in search of some combination of safety from persecution, opportunity to escape poverty, and freedom from oppression—all motivations consistent with the human flourishing that characterizes God's kingdom. In the US, however, these good desires that define many immigrants' 'American dream' have too often metastasized as we have turned safety, affluence, power, and autonomy into idols to be sought at all costs, even when—sometimes subconsciously—these pursuits have excluded others. D. L. Mayfield's beautifully written and provocative The Myth of the American Dream makes a compelling case that God's dream for the world is much grander than our culturally ingrained idols."
-Matthew Soerens, coauthor of Welcoming the Stranger, US director of church mobilization for World Relief
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“this is what we should fear: what our own desperate desire for safety might end up doing to those who are beloved in the eyes of God” If you are a white North American, you'll find much of this book relatable (and probably discomfiting at times!). Mayfield writes a critique of commonly accepted American values, and observes the ways that these values exclude and oppress, the way that the American dream is actually a burden built upon the bodies of people who are invisible to us, people who we have overlooked or ignored. This critique is timely, full of challenging questions, and hinges on hope: that God loves the world and is propelling us all into a community that is more spacious and tender than any American dream.
So many feelings in my heart were put to words on the pages of this book. Like the author, I grew up evangelical, now live in a diverse neighborhood, and can very much relate to her reflections on kinship and being in a true community with those around me. The way Mayfield writes about the circumstances of her life and how she got to where she is today in contrast with the circumstances of her friends and neighbors and the wildly different ways they got to where they are today is so touching and heartfelt, my eyes teared up many times. Americans (Western society) in general may equate prosperity in life to a certain bank account number. Prosperity can certainly be a dollar amount, but in the book, Mayfield asks the reader to consider what if prosperity is also kinship, knowing and being known by others. I received an ARC from netgalley in exchange for an honest review and have also preordered this book to support the author and her message which is so important.
Jesus "came to Nazareth, where He had been brought up; and as was His custom, He entered the synagogue on the Sabbath, and stood up to read. And the book of the prophet Isaiah was handed to Him. And He opened the book and found the place where it was written, “The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, Because He anointed Me to preach the gospel to the poor. He has sent Me to proclaim release to the captives, And recovery of sight to the blind, To set free those who are oppressed, To proclaim the favorable year of the Lord.” And He closed the book, gave it back to the attendant and sat down; and the eyes of all in the synagogue were fixed on Him. And He began to say to them, “Today this Scripture has been fulfilled in your hearing.” Luke 4:16-21 [NASB] This is the passage that D. L. Mayfield begins her book with. It speaks of flourishing for the poor, the captives, the blind, the oppressed, and the favorable year of the Lord (Jubilee). Throught out her book she weaves the fibers of the Biblical text and her experiences of trying to incarnate the texts in her daily life. She reflects on the difficulties stemming from being born of privilege, and the myths that come along with it. The end result is a beautifully woven narrative that reflects the Kingdom of God on Earth as it is in Heaven. The fabric though flawed in parts, due to our fallen state, still displays the beauty of human relationships in community and restorative justice as we pitch our tents in proximity, and action toward shalom with those many would refer to as "other". She writes, "The only way to learn to both identify our longing for and live into shalom is by being in relationship to those who are the most affected by broken systems and broken relationships. Exiles, or the stranger or the foreigner, are a part of the triad of the vulnerable— including widows and orphans —that the Scriptures constantly tell the people of God to care for. She asks two important questions to those who of us professing to be Christians. "Are we okay with the way our world works? Or do we long to see a different dream start to grow?" Reading her book leaves you with the longing to "see a different dream" and "start to grow". To not be a part of constructing dividing walls, but tearing them down and be a part of reflecting the Kingdom of God on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Hi, I'm Carl. I'm an American. I'm a Christian. I'm White. I'm male. Why is this important? Because it means that in "The Myth of the American Dream," by D.L. Mayfield steps on pretty much every toe I have and then manages to get a finger or two in there in the process. Mayfield's book is one that you'll likely either love or hate, but either way I would say it's one you need to read. Especially if you're someone a bit like me. Mayfield tackles a number of of topics revolving around affluence, autonomy, safety, and power in the empire that is America which is never an easy topic. Thankfully, she does this with a both a needed bluntness and loving sense of grace through her own life and formation. Rather than pile on facts upon facts and bits of history on history (though that is all included as well), Mayfield takes you through bits of her own life and experiences that have helped up wake up to a few unfortunate truths that tend to come along with growing up as a White evangelical in America. At least for me, it seems a bit of a better approach for Mayfield to help guide you through some issues as more of a concerned friend who may only be slightly pushier about it than some of your high school friends who have suddenly contacted you about their newest MLM (that's meant in kindness and appreciation FYI), but it works better than perhaps a lofty and scholarly approach would. Mayfield is a "boots on the ground" person as well which helps. Check out her first book as well and it doesn't take long to see that she's working to put her money where her mouth is, literally and figuratively. Again, the book has a lot added to it as you recognize that Mayfield is out there doing the work and that certainly adds to the credibility of the book. I'd have to say *spoiler alert everyone* that my favorite part was the end, in which Mayfield mentions some of the work that others are doing that she knows. Yes, the fact that she talks about a tall man named Carl really caught my attention though it ended up not being about me, but she wraps up her Feeny-esque talks in a very Feeny way (yes, I'm writing this during the COVID-19 lockdown during which my wife has been watching a number of episodes of Boy Meets World while I type this) moving from a much stricter "talkin' to" to a much softer reminder of all the ways people really are making a difference in very normal ways we can all join into. Without a doubt you will likely not see eye to eye with Mayfield on some topics. and you'll probably have some sore toes after reading it, but I would still say that just about any American at the least could greatly benefit from this book. I received a copy of the book from Netgalley for free for an honest review.
This is the book I want to buy for all my friends and family for Christmas this year. After finishing reading it in two days, I immediately preordered a copy for my mom and sisters. Why did I love it so much? This book challenged me to reevaluate the narrative of U.S. history I've been taught, as well as the ways in which I have oriented myself toward affluence, autonomy, safety, and power. Mayfield sets up the framework for her book by writing, "I am being changed by my relationship to people who are exiles from the American Dream--those who have no way to win or who have been excluded from the very beginning...The more I try to follow Jesus, the more I realize that if the gospel isn't good news for the poor, the imprisoned, the brokenhearted, and the oppressed, then it isn't good news for me either." She goes on to share powerful stories of her refugee and immigrant neighbors who have changed the way she sees the American Dream. She repeatedly recognizes her neighbors as teachers, explaining how their lived experiences of trauma and vulnerability have educated her on the systematic injustice that prevails in the U.S. Mayfield later explains how her desire to be a do-gooder and make positive change has often resulted in more harmful outcomes. She writes, "Charity can sometimes feel like neighbor love, especially to the one giving it. But all too often it fails to address the roots of poverty. It baptizes the inequality of the world as normal--where some people give charity and others receive it, and it will always be so. The trouble with this narrative, born of affluence, is that we don't see these disparities, this hierarchy we have created, until it is much too late." As someone who longs to make a difference and feel needed, I resonated with the critical lesson Mayfield learned: sustainable impact demands the long, difficult, and unglamorous work of fighting systematic injustice. More importantly, it requires laying down our own "American Dream" of affluence, autonomy, safety, and power. In addition to sharing stories from her personal life, Mayfield often brings in biblical stories and explores uncommon readings of them. One of my favorite biblical narratives Mayfield brought up was God's provision of manna to the Israelites in the desert. She pushes back against the typical Sunday School interpretation of the story, which tends to victimize the Israelites. Mayfield writes, "Manna, bread given new every morning, was sent with strict instructions: no hoarding was allowed, no one was allowed to stockpile, to sell, to incur debts against their neighbors....Those years in the wilderness with that sweet, ethereal bread was a forty-year relearning process, a reset on what the world is supposed to look like, how societies are supposed to be ordered." Mayfield's perspective felt quite timely as I was reading the book in the midst of the Covid-19 spread and watching the youngest and most wealthy members of my community hoard resources like toilet paper and hand sanitizer, while the most elderly and vulnerable population have struggled to gain access to the resources they need. It made me ask myself, "In what ways do I fear scarcity? In what ways do I hoard resources? How are my actions affecting my most vulnerable neighbors?" Although I have so many other powerful quotes and concepts I'd love to share from this book, I want to keep my review fairly brief and let you read the book yourself. I'll wrap up my review by sharing two of my favorite questions Mayfield asks: First, she asks, "What exactly does it mean to love a neighborhood, to adopt it, to help it, to fix it, when you wouldn't actually ever move into it?" A bit later, she asks, "Someone's kids have to attend the worst school in your city. In your mind whose kids should that be?" Dang. Both of these questions were SO helpful for me to reckon with. Though I have verbally claimed I want to make a difference and have participated in short-term volunteerism, I have simultaneously take steps like attending a private university and moving into an expensive, "safe" apartment complex, decisions that positioned me farther from the communities I said I cared about. Her questions have given me a lot to chew on. Please read this book. Read it if you want to learn about the U.S. history that did not make the history books. Read it if you want to feel a bit uncomfortable. Read it if you want to be inspired by stories of kindness and neighbors. Read it if you want to grieve at the pervasive injustice in the U.S. Read it if you want to grapple with your own privilege. Read it if you sense that things are not as they should be in the world, but you want to have hope that healing is possible. I received an ARC from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
D.L. Mayfield, author of the recent release The Myth of the American Dream, has a story that resonates with me and mirrors some of my own evolution in this area; to that end, I had some hesitance when I approached her book. Would I find it simply a rehashing of my own thoughts? That presumptuous attitude of mine was, thankfully, short-lived. I found this book a relevant, meaningful contribution to current dialogues. Mayfield shows how our behaviors can evolve from being the generous benefactors to truly being in relationship with another. I recall how a church's vision for missions and outreach can often be in this uneven relationship, how the church is the one to give and the chosen countries/neighborhoods/schools are the ones to receive, an uneven balance that leaves most unchanged beyond the short term. I can feel self-aware as I reflect back on my own involvement in such ventures. How do we live out our faith in relevant ways, to admit areas we have come short, to push for improvement? Mayfield has a friend who asks the question: "Who pays for our myths?" As she navigated what it means to acknowledge the privilege we have, as we reflect on what it would look like for justice to take place, for shalom to happen, we are changed. We may make sacrifices when we come alongside another, we may forego other's versions of safety or success, but we gain a truer understanding of what the world is, and what it could become. The best compliment I can pay is that it felt like a conversation I have had with my friends, as we continue learning, continue being made aware of our assumptions and letting new information change us and urge us to act and to speak and to advocate for others so as to better live out our faith and our love for neighbor in the truest, most genuine sense. (I received a digital ARC from InterVarsity Press via NetGalley in exchange for my honest review.)
I was drawn to D.L. Mayfield’s writings because of her love of her neighbors, beautiful storytelling, and pursuit of truth. With that said, I loved the Myth of the American Dream. I feel like her writing and storytelling have really grown in this book and I was captivated by page one. She gently but truthfully pulls back the veil on what is the reality of the American Dream for so many. It’s an eye-opening, for the uninitiated, of systemic racism and classism that so many experience in the United States. It’s a timely message full of heart and the desire to shine the light on the lives of many in our midst. I didn’t agree with everything she said or even theologically land on the same page with her in some areas, but what’s the point of reading a book if you already agree with everything the author says? I loved the opportunity to be stretched in my worldview and examine my own heart for places I can let go of the “American Dream” so that my fellow immigrants, refugees, and other in generational poverty can rise up and experience the same “givens” I expect and want every day. I loved this quote about affluence from her book: “The antidote to affluence is not shame. It is, instead, thanksgiving. This is not a truth I learned on my own but one that has been revealed to me by my friends who excel in the duties of delight and gratitude and celebration, tempered by their very hard realities.” Thank you for your perspective and voice, D.L.! It is much needed in a time like this. I would highly recommend this book to book clubs, men and women who want to expand their view of what IS the American Dream and what does Jesus have to say about it. Read it in a group, discuss it with your friends, your Bible study group. It’s well worth it!