The Honest Enneagram

Know Your Type, Own Your Challenges, Embrace Your Growth

Narrated by Leslie Howard
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Pub Date 14 Apr 2020 | Archive Date 18 Aug 2020
Andrews McMeel Audio | Andrews McMeel Publishing

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The Enneagram personality system consists of a spectrum of nine personality types. Based on the hit Instagram account, @enneagramandcoffee, this book is an introduction to the Enneagram itself, along with information about each type. With the feeling of your best friend telling you about the Enneagram and beautiful illustrations mixed in with the writing, this book is digestible and engaging for new and seasoned Enneagram fans.
 

The Enneagram personality system consists of a spectrum of nine personality types. Based on the hit Instagram account, @enneagramandcoffee, this book is an introduction to the Enneagram itself, along...


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What is your Enneagram number? I am a 6 (the loyalist) all the way! Safety and security are what I need! This book does a deep dive into each type. It gives the good, bad, where you go in stress, and things you can work on.

I really enjoyed this one. I listened on audio and I love that it hit all the parts of the types. We tend to focus on either the positives of our type, or the negatives, and this book did a great job of praising the positives, and giving a different perspective on the negatives, including ways you can better yourself through your wings and lines. If you haven’t taken an Enneagram test I highly recommend it. Its creepy how accurate it is!

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I have been intrigued by the Enneagram for awhile, but this was my first real in depth look at it. After taking a quick test online to determine my number I dove into the book. I thought it was approachable and engaging. It explained the overall concept thoroughly and clearly, then the real meat of the book was well delivered in each type's chapter. I really liked the explanation of the positive and negative qualities of the type, as well as the "wings" often used.
As an audiobook, the reading was clear and engaging. I do think this audiobook would benefit from a PDF "handout" of some of the pages. For example, each type opened with a "bingo sheet" and I think this would have benefited from a visual.

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The Honest Enneagram by Sarajane Case

Audiobook
Publisher: Andrews McMeel Audio
Release Date: April 14, 2020
Narrator: Leslie Howard

Self-Help

This was my first experience with enneagram. I was in awe listening to the narrator describe me perfectly as a Type 1. I could not believe how accurate it was. The book is about personality types. The author gives a quick overview of each personality type dedicates a chapter for each one going into more detail.

The one thing I would have liked would be a sample test at the beginning of the book. That way I would have known what type I was before I started. The author has a very easy to read and understand writing style. The subject matter is very interesting and helpful when communicating with others. If you are interested in finding out more about your personality type, I highly recommend this book.

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I am a huge fan of the author's instagram account, so I was eager to listen to her book and it did not disappoint.
I think the narrator was the PERFECT choice for this type of book. Her voice was gentle and kind; I truly could listen to her for hours. I was engaged and interested the whole time.
As for the content, I think visual learners may prefer a hard copy of this book as the Enneagram types are somewhat visual, however, everything was very clearly explained and easy to follow. If you are an oral learner or a fan of podcasts, the audiobook format will be a perfect fit.
I am fairly familiar with the Enneagram and I still learned a lot from this book. It handles the personal topic of self-reflection with grace, forgiveness, and gentleness. There is no shame associated with the weaknesses of any of the types. I highly recommend this title for anyone who is Enneagram-curious! I would definitely gift this book to a friend.

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While this book does not offer an Enneagram test, you can find them online for free. The author gives a great overview of all the types, which I especially loved since as a 9, my type is a combination of many others. Like most of these things- whether it's your astrological sign, or your Myers-Brigg personality test, nothing will be a perfect fit, but the basics of Enneagram 9 definitely fit me well and has given me a lot to think about. I will definitely be pulling this book out next book club - yes, I purchased a physical copy. A fascinating way to take a deeper look into our personalities, strengths and weaknesses.

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Interesting personality archetypes, but I'm a bit skeptical as to how the author defines and divide the different archetypes, I often have this issue with personality tests (hello, Myers Briggs). Love the narration though.

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I have gone back and forth with what type I am, and have read multiple books, listened to multiple podcasts, talked to multiple people... but this book helped me finally figure it out. Sarajane's words and descriptions are in depth and enlightening. I have been following her on Instagram for awhile and her information is always easy to understand.

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This was a great read! I love reading about the enneagram, and this book most definitely helped to expand my knowledge about the enneagram. I plan to share this book with all of my enneagram loving friends!

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This was my first audio book experience and I've enjoyed immensely.

The Honest Enneagram is very concise and sistematic book, well read and full of interesting informations. I've taken enneagram test online and then just carefully listened about my personality type/s, pro and cons and advices how to become better self.

The book is really useful and I highly recommend it.

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*I received a copy from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review

This is a good book if you already know about Enneagrams. There was a little bingo bit before each chapter, that I found entertaining. For example, going grocery shopping: a 6 will .... a 9 will.... They were fun, quick snapshots of the 9 enneagram types. I do wish there was something included in the book to determine your enneagram type before you start reading. I already know mine, but it’s be helpful for those that do not. Otherwise, you don’t really understand what you’re reading.

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I have done the tiniest bit of research into Enneagram before listening to this book, enough to be confused. Sarajane's take is relatable and easy to understand, you could easily just listen to your type, but I encourage you to listen to each one for valuable insight. You might even be convinced that you have not been assigned the right type.

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I like this book. I think it can be a good tool for you if you are interested in the enneagram. I would say that this book is not for people who know nothing about the enneagram going into it. It is a good next step after you have some basic knowledge. I really like her approach to health and stress in relation to the enneagram. I also really enjoy that the author seems to really love each enneagram type for who they are.

I recommend you get this book in print vs on audio. I did not enjoy the narrator’s tone. In fact, I found it very annoying. I also think it’ll be easier to reference and understand all the information contained in this one in print.

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The Honest Enneagram is a very informative and interesting book about the Enneagram. This goes through all nine Enneagram types. The Honest Enneagram discusses the benefits of each Enneagram type and also says how you can overcome the weaker aspects of your personality. The book also discusses how each Enneagram type effects relationships. I really enjoyed this book.

I took an Enneagram test a few months ago and got pretty into finding out about Enneagram. This book has encouraged me to study Ennegram even more.

Leslie Howard did a great job narrating. It felt like a concerned friend was talking to me.

Thank you NetGalley and Andrews McMeel Audio for this audiobook in exchange for an honest review.

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SaraJane! This book is amazing. I have read a lot enneagram books and none of them felt more opening and understandable. For anyone that is just getting into their enneagram journey this would be my recommended starting point.
I have been a follower of @enneagramandcoffee for years and I think this is a good summation of all the light and life that her account exudes.

I will say with the audiobook quality, I listened to it at 2x speed and it sounded quite echo-y. But I truly loved the content.

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As soon as I finished this audiobook, I instantly followed the author on Instagram. While I’m really new to the world of Enneagrams, I know my type and really enjoyed the honest but soft feedback that she provided for my type. Instead of focusing on negatives of the types, she instead showed how to grow and develop for yourself, not for others. I would highly recommend this to anyone, no matter what step they are on their Enneagram journey.

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Do you know your enneagram number? Here was me before listening to The Honest Enneagram: Influencers would post their enneagram type, then I'd click on the instagram handle to look for my type and I'd choose whatever type fit my mood at that time. Why would I do this? Because I have taken the enneagram test approximately 5 times. All of those times I took it during teacher retreat days to see which teacher group we would work better with or at night while watching Schitt's Creek. Knowing my enneagram never benefited me because it wasn't a true representation of me but more of how I was feeling at that specific moment...which I'm not going to lie...it fluctuates a lot! I am a one woman circus.

This book is not a test to find out your enneagram. You either know your enneagram type already or you read this book to explore the 9 types. After listening to The Honest Enneagram I understood the reasoning behind this personality system. With an open mind I started listening to Sarajane explain with detail each one of the 9 types of enneagrams, the good, the b....she never says bad.. The author is very positive and offers ways to work on the negative aspects of your type. After listening to all enneagrams I was able to determine which type I am.

Narration: I enjoyed listening to this audiobook. The narrator is heartwarming so you can listen to this while you are taking a bath or meditating. The pace is excellent if you want to take notes too.

This is a fun, interesting, short book to explore more about enneagrams.

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I heard Sarajane Case on a podcast so I was very excited to see that The Honest Enneagram was available on Net Galley as an audiobook. I appreciated the way Sarajane used what she calls the “H.O.N.E.S.T” approach to give each Enneagram type ways to honor their strengths while being open to improving their weaknesses. I also loved her different examples of each of the enneagram types in various situations, like at an amusement park or getting a tattoo.

I did not love the repetitiveness in wording and phrases between each type. For example, in the “S” section of each type (which stands for Soften Your Path), she starts each one with “OK, so we’ve established what makes you amazing. (Way to go, by the way!). If you are only reading/listening to one type it’s no big deal. But I wanted to learn more about every type so it became super repetitive.

Overall I would recommend this book to anyone just learning about the enneagram and those who want a different approach to learning about it.

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This book got me into the idea of the enneagram, which is awesome. Its description of the different types didn't appeal to me as much as other sources I looked at.

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I was eager to listen to the audiobook of <i>The Honest Enneagram</i> when I found it available for download and review (thanks to the publisher) on NetGalley.  I have always found the Enneagram Personality Type system -- with its particular philosophies about the nature of individual psychology, which can point the way to paths to personal growth, very interesting.  Like other Enneagram sources with which I'm familiar, this book similarly presents the essential qualities of each of the nine types, as well as the modifying factors (instinctual type, wing, etc.) that distinguish further among personalities in each type category. In each chapter, Sarajane Case sets forth particular insights about the possible strengths, weaknesses, challenges, and opportunities for development associated with each type. One strength of her characterization of the types is the sympathy she explicitly shows for people in each category in facing their particular hurdles to self-improvement and harmonious relationships with each other. Every type description seems like a relatable human being, and Case is very careful to make sure her advice is framed in an empowering way. Everything about the presentation of each type is calculated to help the reader embrace him or herself without shame or reservation. Case entices the reader to embrace the particular qualities and associated advice in a shame-free, self-affirming way so she can employ the insights in a pro-active, optimal manner. One weakness of this book's approach is that reality is somewhat sugarcoated. That is, there seems to be the implicit assumption throughout the book that if the reader achieves optimal self-development, relatively positive outcomes can be expected to result. My experience of this world is that chances of positive outcomes can be enhanced but not controlled in this life. People do not always treat one another according to one's merits, etc. This does not detract from the utility of the book's advice insofar as it goes, but in failing to pay so much as lip service anywhere to life's unfairness the book loses something in the way of gravitas. Overall, I would recommend this read to anyone seeking to gain a basic familiarity with this personality type system.

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This is an extremely helpful book! I recommend taking a test first, in order to find your personality type (there are nine), and than listen/read the book and understand your type a bit better. The test I took had a duration of 10 minutes. This book is very practical, the author explains everything really well. Regarding the audiobook, the person's voice was soothing and paused, which helped to understand everything a little better. Rating: 5/5 stars.

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A very short, sweet book about each Enneagram type.

Many of the chapters are descriptions of that type explained in a positive, helpful way.

As someone new to Enneagram I found this book extremely helpful in understanding the various types. I would not recommend this to someone who is an expert, but for someone who is new it was wonderful and inspiring.

I found it made me want to learn more about Enneagram and how I can use knowledge of it to help me with myself and relationships. The book is not long.

The voice was very pleasing and soothing to listen to on audiobook.

I received an ARC as a reader for NetGalley.

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I love anything and everything enneagram. I’ve followed Sarajane’s enneagram instagram from the beginning, so I thought I might already pretty much know everything she mentions in the book, but I was pleasantly surprised!

I love how she focuses on positive language and really amps up the strengths of each number, since we all tend to resonate more with the negative aspects of our numbers. This book stands out because she doesn’t just describe the type and leave it be - she goes one step further and recommends specific ways each type can grow and even recommends activities to help strengthen the positive aspects of your number.

I really enjoyed the book, the narrator just sounded too robotic to me. I also think from the descriptions at the beginning of each chapter that this book probably would’ve been better to a read as a physical copy (enneagram number bingos, etc)

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I listened to The Honest Enneagram on audio. I absolutely loved the voice, she was perfect for this book. The book is the first I’ve ever heard of the enneagram, and it’s very interesting. So this book is perfect for new and old to the enneagram. I listened to this book from beginning to end and never wanted it to end. It is very informative. I would definitely recommend. :) happy reading.

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The Honest Enneagram is the perfect book for anyone who has been curious about the enneagram, but has never taken the plunge to learn about it before. I fell solidly into this category, vaguely wondering what my type might be and not realizing how this could be utilized to learn more about myself and others. This guide is very knowledgeable, it clearly explains why and how the enneagram can be used as a tool. Covering all of the types, the book presents the strengths and weaknesses in each. However, the book is clear that thinking about the enneagram is in no way a binary process and instead provides a space to engage in honest self-reflection.

After the initial introduction, each chapter is devoted to a specific type with intricate details and information about self-care and growth. Even if you have already identified which type you are, it is still very interesting to hear about the other types. I found myself reflecting that for each type described, I could picture people who fit the criteria. In between, there are fun lists of activities such as the types “going to the amusement park" or "getting a tattoo.” In addition to learning more about the enneagram, the consistent focus on growth and actionable items provides a tangible way to assist in contemplation. I listened to the audiobook and found the narration to be well-paced. The narrator’s tone was encouraging and pleasant to listen to. The Honest Enneagram is available now. Thank you to Sarajane Case, Andrews McMeel Audio, and Netgalley for a free audiobook in exchange for an honest review.

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I have read two other enneagram books and find the subject fascinating. The chapter on my type (2) really resonated with me. I recognized myself in many of the descriptions and behaviors she included. As for the "honest" portion of the title, it rings true. I found myself shocked at times, thinking "do I really do that?!" and almost defensive at others. "Ulterior motives?! Pssh!" It was a really enjoyable read even if you already have some enneagram knowledge.

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The narrator has such a soothing, calming voice. She does a very good job at describing all the types and wings of the enneagram. She gives you list to make and follow and encourages you to really look into your type. I loved listening to her and learnt a lot about my enneagram type. Highly recommended you take the time to find a quiet place to sit and even take some notes.
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I was excited for this book being previously familiar with Enneagram and Coffee and Sarajane Case through that. I think that this book is very interesting in its explanations and I love the bingo card aspect of it. However, listening to this book is difficult especially when you want to see the graphic features such as a bingo card. I think this would be great to have both a physical and audio copy of as the narration is great, it just seems like the physical copy is needed for some nuances and graphics.

I think this book is a great intro level explanation but as it does not have a test I can see where some readers have found it not useful as they struggle to discern their base motivation when they may have characteristics that align with many numbers, if you have some familiarity with enneagram this is definitely good continuation. I am enthralled by the enneagram as a 7- and my deep diving 5 in growth is all about picking up all of the resources that I can.

A good read- I would recommend it, but preferably in a physical copy.

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This book is loaded with information on the different numbers of the enneagram. The narrator has a soft and soothing voice. You can only listen to so much at a time so you can absorb the information. This is a book you will want to reference over and over. Listening for me helps me absorb the information better. Highly recommended!

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Thank you to netgalley for the audiobook in exchange for an honest review.

Before reading this book I knew vaguely about the enneagram, and I have always been interested in personality types and the way it makes different people react in the world.

This book was very insightful to the different enneagram numbers and the subsequent personalities tied to those numbers. I would definitely suggest that you know your number before reading (or listening) to this book and it will definitely be more insightful for you.

Listening to all nine types does become a bit repetitive, but it is still good learning material and insightful.

I would definitely recommend this book to anyone who wants to learn more about their personality types or others personality types and the way it makes them interact with the world.

*All thoughts and opinions are my own.

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As the enneagram has gained interest and traction in the last few years, I was interested in listening to this audiobook to gain more understanding of the types and classifications. Going into it, I knew there were nine different classifications, but I would hear terms like "wings" and have no background for what that meant or how those were determined.

The book is set up with nine chapters, one for each type. The chapters were formatted similarly; each began with a "bingo" list, phrases that would be familiar to that type. Then they'd expand more on the strengths and weaknesses, their tendencies at their best and worst, and advice for how to counter any drawbacks (or encouragement to explore and embrace strengths). Some of the information framing might be repetitive, but that's understandable, as I could see this being used as a resource, with individuals going immediately to their chapter if their interest is primarily in learning more about their classification instead of learning about the enneagram types overall. The narrator has a soothing voice as she delivered the information.

When I began listening, I was immediately realizing there were traits of 1s that I had in common; I had taken a test a year ago and didn't recall my results exactly, but I knew the 1 wasn't mine. I paused the audiobook to find another test to take, which determined I was a 9 (The Peacemaker), although I was also strong in 2 and 4. This entered my doubt. How could I have solid traits for a third of the enneagram types?

I continued to listen, and my experience was identical as I went along -- some types felt very familiar as she discussed various features, but I patiently continued.

And then the book was concluding with my type. The list of traits included a phrase similar to "sees themselves in all enneagram types," and I realized that this was an intentional feature of 9s, not a weakness to the enneagram system. As the chapter continued, I did agree that I am solidly a 9, so previous doubts about enneagram classifications are mollified for now.

One reason I'm rating this as a three-star read instead of higher is due to not better explaining the "wings" component, as well as not allowing a way for readers to determine their type without outside work. I consider a similar book I've gone through on personalities, and when it was purchased, it came with a unique code and instructions to go to their website to unlock the quiz. Such elaborate lengths aren't necessary, but it would be helpful for the author to recommend a website that would help those encountering this book better interact with it.

There are numerous volumes out there on the enneagram, but this can also be a welcome exposure to the different types.

(I received a digital ARC audiobook of this title from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for my honest opinion.)

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I love the Instagram account of the author (@enneagramandcoffee) and if you do too, you’ll probably enjoy this book.
This is a book for those who already know what the enneagram is and what their type is.
If you are brand new to the Enneagram, this book is not the place to start - it doesn’t explain what the enneagram is (a path of growth, not personality typing, like Myers Briggs) or how to find your type.
That said, if you want to learn more about your type than snippets from Instagram posts, this book has great descriptions of each type, with three subtypes and wings, along with a “ HONEST plan” for how to grow within and beyond your type.
I found the acronym a stretch, but the advice was generous and loving, if a bit repetitive (accepting yourself? always a good idea).
I listened to the audio book and the narrator was great, but there were several times when I think seeing it in print would have been better.

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I usually don't read nonfiction books,but I will be recommending this book to my friends. I had no idea about this topic when I started listening to this audiobook, and it was surprising how many areas they are to explore yourself and to get to know you in different aspects. When I started listening to this book I did a test to know which was my enneagram and to my surprise the results and each chapter were on point to really realize who I am in a different perspective. The narrator of the audiobook has a nice voice tone to explain everything in a way where you really could identify the information about yourself and not feel it hard.

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When I stepped into this audiobook, the extent of my enneagram knowledge was pretty cursory and I was fully aware of that. I knew that I was a type 1 wing 2, and I broadly knew the qualities that type possesses/exhibits. My knowledge ended there.
Before reading Sarajane Case's book, I felt like my enneagram was sort of this box that I fit in, and understanding my type could help me understand myself better, but I had no idea that I could actively grow WITHIN my enneagram type. I didn't understand that I could reach for the "high" lines of my type and subtype (more on that soon), and recognize when I was falling towards a "low" line of it. What Sarajane's book did for me was to (rather counterintuitively) teach me that I'll never "outgrow" my enneagram type, and that's A) very much NOT the point of enneagrams, and B) a GOOD thing. The idea that "we can and should outgrow ourselves" is what causes discouragement and frustration as we work to be the very best versions of ourselves. Actively working to change my type is A) not possible and B) not the goal. Learning that the goal was embracing my growth within my type was quite the relief, as if I'd been holding a breath I didn't know I'd been holding.

If my first paragraph here isn't making it plaintively obvious that I'm a type 1 enneagram, I can now spoil the surprise for you that I'm a 1. ;) Sarajane's book also taught me that there are subtypes, mine being "social," which means I spend a lot of time worrying over how I'm being perceived and I tend to have a harsh + loud inner critical voice. It was interesting to me to hear that "1s are some of the best people you know," because to me, being a 1 has been synonymous with rigidity, inflexibility, high levels of self-inflicted pressure, a need for perfectionism, and it overall just felt like a "not very fun, highly stressed" type. Sarajane helped me see the BEST qualities in 1s, like we live honorably, we give great advice, we care about the wellbeing of others, we are consistent and reliable, and we help others want to be the best versions of themselves too. Moreover, it gave me very concrete objectives that are common ways 1s reach for that high line of their types, like picking my battles, writing down my anger on a piece of paper and throwing it away, and not nitpicking people I care about. She does this all with a very "soft landing," if you will, and I feel like her deep understanding of each enneagram personality type lets her speak directly to THAT particular audience in the way that it's going to best be taken in.

The most accurate way I can describe this reading experience is that it was like looking into a mirror, but looking into a mirror on a very good day: seeing not only what's there, but seeing ALL that is there (the best parts included), and knowing that you now have a little arsenal of tools that helps empower you to enhance that reflection over time. We all get to live with ourselves, and this book helped me understand that it's truly a "get to" instead of a "have to". I'm so glad I listened to this (*narrated by Leslie Howard), and I'm excited to follow @enneagramandcoffee with this knowledge foundation I'm now carrying around. Thanks to #netgalley for the ebook; this was truly a joy.

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The ideas shared in this book are very interesting and seem to have a lot of validity! I felt like I needed a notepad when I was listening to this, so I think I would prefer it in written form for that reason. However, it did make for a good listen during a quiet commute on my own. The format of the book is great, splitting up the personality numbers into different chapters which makes for easy manuevering if you are seeking out specific personality types. The narrator has a calming voice and reads at a comfortable speed for processing the ideas and theories shared in this book.

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I have just gotten into Enneagram's after Rachel & Dave Hollis mentioned them in their online seminar. This is a great compliment to online resources. I listened to the audiobook and I am going to run out and purchase the book for reference. I think I will get much more out of it as a resource book.

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I am still new to learning about the enneagram. From the few books I’ve read, I really enjoyed The Honest Enneagram by Sarajane Case. Listening to the audiobook was great and the author/narration flowed nicely. I plan on purchasing a print copy as well. There was so much helpful information, presented in this book and written in such a way that no trait of an enneagram number was seen as a bad or negative. That’s what I really liked about the authors approach on the enneagram.

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This Enneagram reminds me very much of a horoscope.
I loved the authors voice, very calm and soothing, she made it feel like no one would ever judge you.
The book brings insight to your personality and how it can clash with others.
It also brings an insight that there is nothing wrong with your personality, but you can work to improve it so you do not clash with others.

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