Love-Centered Parenting

The No-Fail Guide to Launching Your Kids

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Pub Date 16 Mar 2021 | Archive Date 31 May 2021
Bethany House | Bethany House Publishers

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Do you worry that you're messing up your kids? Do you get stressed when you think about their futures? New York Times bestselling author Crystal Paine knows how you feel. A mom of four, Crystal has struggled with anxiety over parenting. She wanted to parent with grace, instead of a system of rules where kids are expected to do all the right things. She wanted to be a safe place for her children, and she definitely didn't want to be remembered as the sort of mom who yelled, wounded her kids with words, or worse, cared more about her reputation than her kids' hearts. 

In this book, Crystal shares the life-changing lessons that God has been teaching her about raising kids with love and grace.
In Love-Centered Parenting, Crystal will

· reveal the no-fail secret to launching your kids
· uncover the root of why we often feel so frustrated and irritated with our kids
· share the four most important choices we can make as parents
· give you the tools to keep going when you want to give up
· help you get your kids to talk to you

It is possible to parent from a place of freedom and rest, giving your kids what they truly need to thrive in this world.

Do you worry that you're messing up your kids? Do you get stressed when you think about their futures? New York Times bestselling author Crystal Paine knows how you feel. A mom of four, Crystal has...


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This book is an awesome tool to add to your parenting. So many things to make you step back and reevaluate what not only is best for your kids, but are you doing the best for you.

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Crystal's book was a strong reminder that relationships matter and everything, including my parenting, begins and ultimately ends with me. I can't control my kids attitudes but I can control how I respond. I can't control my kids choices but I can prepare them to make those choices. When I picked this book up to read I was expecting another parenting book with endless lists of easy to follow steps to be the perfect parent and get compliant children but instead I was reminded that perfection is an illusion with negative byproducts that spill over into all our relationships and negatively impacts my parenting. Love Centered Parenting equipped me with several truths that transformed how I look at relationships and my parenting. I found so much hope and encouragement in this book and I think you will too.

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I received a copy of this book in advance. This is an honest review and all opinions are my own.

I have followed Crystal Paine’s blog and social media for years, so I was super excited when she announced that she was writing a parenting book. I’m not a religious person, and even though Love Centered Parenting is Christian based, I figured there would be things I could take away from the book to help me parent better. I was right. While the theme of God is spread throughout the book, along with numerous references to bible verses and Crystal’s faith, her ideas can be used by people of any religious persuasion, or none at all. I love that the focus is how we as parents can change our behavior to love our children well, encouraging them to grow into themselves, rather than molding our children into how we think they should be.

Not only does Crystal include deeply personal stories about her family, but this book contains wisdom such as:
“Our kids don’t need our productivity. They need our presence.”
“Ultimately, I’m not in control of my kids’ lives and decisions.”

EXCELLENT BOOK!

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This is a book that I wish had been available ten years ago when I started my parenting journey. Crystal does a great job of reminding us how much Christ loves us and how that should come through in our parenting. I am recommending this book to all my friends that have children!

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This book has taken all of my random thoughts about parenting and boiled it down so anyone can read it. It really is a great resource for all types of parents. Whether you are the parent with no idea of where to start or the parent who has been doing this for a while but needs a tweak, this book is for you. Love Centered Parenting is amazing, and my new go-to baby shower gift.

This book starts with working on yourself, the parent before you can help your child. The building blocks of Love Centered Parenting are the ideas of self-love, love from God, and trust in the atonement of Jesus. Crystal is a Christian and allows her beliefs to permeate everything in her life. I love her insights into different passages in the bible and how they apply to the world of parenting.

The four steps she goes over in Love Centered Parenting are 1) Lean In and Love, 2) Listen Well, 3) Lead with Humility, and 4) Let Go. These may seem simple, but I love how she devotes time to each one showing what happens when it's working or not. Crystal gives many examples of showing love to our children, stoping to actually listen, leading, and ultimately, letting go.

I really enjoyed this book and recommend it to all!

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Love-Centered Parenting is not your usual parenting book. This book isn't 5 steps to implement to improve your children or a "how to" or "what to do '' list. Rather Crystal causes you to stop and think about yourself as a parent - how you as a parent can change, what your heart is like and what your approach could be, to forge a stronger positive relationship with your children. Love-Centered Parenting is about getting to the root of how you think, act and do as a parent. Through immense vulnerability Crystal shares how even though she walks with God and her family holds strong to their faith, as Christians, they are not immune to challenges and tribulations. Crystal is relatable, practical and empathetic to how hard parenting can be. Love-Centered Parenting is useful for parents of all stages! Crystal has written a guide that motivates parents to parent and raise their children through the grace and love of God by releasing the burdens and pressures so often associated with parenting. A must read for not yet parents and soon to be empty nesters.

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I have never highlighted a book more than Crystal Paine’s Love Centered Parenting. Crystal is honest and transparent with her struggles and mistakes and many thanks to her kids for allowing her to tell their stories. It can feel very lonely when we are stuck in our own little worlds, especially during pandemic days, and I have definitely felt like the worst parent and that all the other families out there are perfect and what is wrong with me?! Why can’t my kids be the kind of amazing we see on social media? We all want to love our kids and see them become incredible adults, and this book has the tools and the inspiration that will make that goal a little easier.

Filled with stories and examples of what Crystal is learning through her own parenting, she gives practical advice that you can implement today. It starts with how we see ourselves. That we can’t live the love-centered parenting approach if we don’t believe that we ourselves are loved by God. After we start to live loved, we are able to lean in and love our kids even when we’d rather lash out and start lecturing. We can listen well and actually pay attention to what our kids are saying and get to their hearts. We can lead with humility, admitting when we are wrong and teaching our kids to do the same. Then we can learn to let go and allow our kids to make mistakes and learn from them since the goal is to raise adults.

Crystal also includes memory verses, conversation starters, and many more helps in the back of the book which are practical and helpful.

I cannot recommend this book more highly. I have enjoyed Crystal’s books, email newsletters, and podcasts for years, and this book will definitely be a reread and a frequent reference as I go through my days. I’m already daily reminding myself to Live Loved, Lean in and Love, and Listen Well. You will not be disappointed.
I received a complimentary copy of this book for an honest review. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

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This is a parenting book that focuses on the parent's behavior rather than how to handle your child's behavior. And for that reason, it truly is a gold mine. The author's perspective is that she needs Jesus and a solid, growing relationship with Him, with her identity set on who she is in Him, in order to parent well.

So why did I give it four stars? I'm not sure the best audience for this book on parenting. I wasn't the best audience which is what clouds my judgment I suspect because my youngest is 11 and my oldest is 19. I wasn't the best audience because I relearned how to parent over a decade ago.

My real wonder about fit is that Crystal's starting point of change rests in her own view of herself, her insecurity, and her recognition that she was believing lies about herself and that was making her parenting motivation about her, not about her children's growth. Not all will relate to her anxiety, fear, and insecurity, so that's what gives me pause in the book recommendation. My fear would be that people who don't connect with her weakness and discoveries might miss the conclusions that it brought her to, and that ALL believers should keep in mind as they parent a newborn or an adult child.

That being said, I've tried to read new parenting books that are different, highly recommended, and faith-based once or twice a year, because parenting is one aspect of life where failure is consistent, yet I learn and grow, but I always have more to learn, and I always need more perspective, focus, and reminders of how to think about the heart, and approach others in love, and not react out of my own emotions. I enjoyed the book a lot. I read it in days which isn't something that I often have done in this past year. I learned. I grew. I am reminded, humbled, and it was a good book for me.

So as I'm not fully sure the best people to read this book, I can share things to note before choosing this book:

*This book is an encouragement to parent out of your love for the Lord Jesus, His love for you that really fuels your life, and your trust in the Holy Spirit.

*half of the book shared Crystal's stories and self-discovery when she hit rock bottom in her parenting journey and realized she had been parenting out of fear, not faith, that she's been worried about how her children made her look, not how their behavior showed their hearts.

So it's her process and discovery that to parent out of love- you need to have an identity in Christ. A secure developed, humble, daily even second by second faith and interaction with the Holy Spirit. (this is the part of the book that many will clearly appreciate and benefit from.)

*the second half of the book is strategies to keep in mind for leading with love and leaning in to love first. These are vital, important truths. Our love comes from God. From the heavenly Father, and He helps us give our children what they need to launch into life. This vital message is clear, talks through failures and successes that Crystal Paine has processed in her parenting experience, and gives a great perspective for parents to process, remember, and tattoo into their mindset.

I've said since I became a mom to one child-- parenting is the most sanctifying experience of my life and faith- and as the parent of a 19, 15, 11-year-olds, as well as four-plus years pouring into another child from ages 5-10, it still is!!

I suspect that my discovery of being sure I parented this way started a few years before Crystal's when I re-learned how to parent a child from a hard place who spent over 4 years in our home as our child. Only Love Today by Rachel Macy Stafford reminds me of some of the thoughts shared in the book. Connected parenting by Karyn Purvis was the first clear model. Connect first then redirect was a mantra I learned. Time-In, not time-out. Find the why behind the behavior. Perspectives I've been following almost a decade.

I sought out this book to review after a conversation with a group of friends about the subtitle of the book. We all liked Love Centered Parenting. But the subtitle of "a no-fail guide to launching your kids" was a stumbling block for many. Nothing in life is no-fail. But having followed Crystal's blog for well over 10 years, maybe 15? I didn't think she would allow this to be a subtitle that didn't fit the book.

I even asked her on Instagram what she meant by it. Here's what she said: "well, I’d need a whole book to clearly explain that! 😉 But, the premise of the book is that walking with your kids and loving them well — as I outline in the book — isn’t ultimately about their choices and decisions or how they turn out, but about pouring into them with the love we have been given by God. It’s about leaning in and loving, listening well, leading with humility, and letting go. ❤️"

Well having read the book, I get it better. I'm not sure I would have chosen those words but I will say that the book is more about how the parent acts in order to launch kids into adult life. And since ultimately in parenting, I can only control myself in a healthy way, and I need to parent with the intention that I am parenting people who will be adults out in the world without me, and I would really love it if they were also people that I truly enjoy, want to spend time with, and who love and want to stay involved in my life, beyond the years they live in my home.

One of my favorite discoveries the author mentions is: as parents, we are NOT parenting for first-time obedience as our main parenting goal. I've felt this way for a long time, but haven't been able to articulate my reasoning as she does. I like parenting as a relationship, not for rules.

I love how she ends the chapters with key thoughts/points. I love the authors she has chosen to quote and her quotes are some of my favorite perspectives. I love her heart and fully agree with her strategies and perspective. So I suppose for me maybe this book is a five-star book. I'll think about this.

Thankful to Netgalley, Baker books, and Bethany House Publishing for the opportunity to read an advance copy of this book and review it. Go pre-order it-- I can suggest that you buy it or have your library order it!

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“It’s my story of letting go of control and manipulation and parenting for my reputation, and relearning to parent from a place of love and grace.”

Parenting is not easy. There are so many parenting books out there that give advice on what to do and say (or not do and say), but not many address the heart and attitude of a parent. Love-Centered Parenting does focus on having parents take a hard look at their own motivations and encourages them to both evaluate they lies they believe about themselves and then replace them with the truth of being loved by God. Then parents can find a way to lean in and love their children well.

I am part of the launch team for Love-Centered Parenting. I was given an advanced copy of the book in exchange for a fair review. I have followed Crystal Paine for many years and have loved her advice on ways to save money and tips for blogging. Recently, I started listening to the podcast she has with her husband and enjoy how real they are and open to sharing their lives.

Love-Centered Parenting is a faith-based book about the heart of a parent. Crystal shares many stories of both successes and failures from her time as a mother so far. She opens by sharing that one of their children was suicidal at one point. There were called into the principal’s office to find out their child had been bullying other children and acting out inappropriately. No teachers or other parents had told them what was going on. They ended up having to take the child to the ER before they got the help and counseling they needed. This was a wake-up call for them as parents and Crystal shares from her heart so other parents can learn the lesson she did without having to hit rock-bottom in parenting.

The goal in parenting should be to love our children well, not base our reputation on what they do or define being a good parent by a child’s actions. The only way to do this is to base parenting decisions on love, according to Crystal. I would recommend this book to every parent and parent-to-be out there – or to anyone who takes care of children. While she says Love-Centered Parenting is geared with advice to parents of young children since she is still in the midst of parenting teens, I feel her advice works very well for being a parent of teens.

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I have followed Crystal Paine on social media for several years and am a fan of hers, so I enjoyed her newest book. I was already familiar with a lot of her story and parenting techniques that she uses, so as a result, there was not a lot of new information for me in the book. It included a lot of rehashing from her blog and Instagram, but someone who is not familiar with her from social media would probably find the book less repetitive. It is written from a Christian perspective, but I think it also has some valuable information for secular parents as well. The author is very positive and encouraging and I found the book to have a lot of good ideas for remembering that loving your kids is the most important part of parenting.

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I have followed Crystal Paine for many years through her blog and social media. Her latest book Love-Centered Parenting shows her at her most vulnerable and how life circumstances can flip a parenting journey in an instant.

Her writing style is very conversational and the book is easy to read while still driving home the points that she is making.

During this time of lock downs and staying at home, Love-Centered Parenting shows us how to parent from a place of love and contentment vs stress and frustration.

Love-Centered Parenting will be a welcome addition to many parents bookshelves no matter what age children they have

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This book is the parenting book I never knew I needed! I love that Crystal wrote this parenting book from a Biblical viewpoint.This isn't a do this, this and this so your kids will behave a certain way type book. Crystal gets raw and real with her parenting journey and struggles, and shows us how she came to a place of parenting with love and Jesus as the focus. I love the idea and reminder that it is our job as parents to point our kids to the Savior ( Jesus) and not be their savior. This book both convicted and encouraged me! I could go on and on about all I loved about Love Centered Parenting! I'm looking forward to implementing all of these tidbits of wisdom in my own parenting journey! I highly recommend this one!

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A helpful and practical guide to parenting from love instead of from fear or worrying about what other people think. The book focuses on your relationship and standing before God and how to parent from that basis. Crystal begins by sharing a very vulnerable parenting story which happened 4 years previous to writing the book and set them on a transformational journey towards parenting their kids in a "love-centered" way. As a book in the parenting genre, I think her honesty and vulnerability in sharing her own personal stories and journey, added a layer of authenticity to her advice which is often lacking in other parenting books or replaced by "stories based on people I've counseled".

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I recommend this book to parents of littles everywhere! I was blown away by Crystal’s thoroughly biblical philosophy of parenting from a place of love and attachment rather than behavioral modification (in the past something she strove for to the detriment of her relationships with her kids). This book read much like a memoir, as she outlines her personal transformation and recent deepening of her understanding of the love of God. If you’re looking for a ten-step parenting plan, this isn’t the book for you. But if you feel the weight of your child’s behavior and future resting entirely on your shoulders, find the freedom in this book to lean in and love, listen well, lead with humility, let go and leave the rest to God.

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I received a copy of this book to read in advance. These opinions are my own.

If you’re looking for one more book that promises a new family by tomorrow, this one isn’t for you. If you want 35 strategies to parenting perfection, this book won’t deliver. It’s not quick-fix or superficial on any level. But, if you’re looking for a few key areas to focus on that will make a difference for the long haul, choose this book. Parenting isn’t ever one-sized & no two kids are the same, but the timeless truths Crystal unpacks are what every heart is longing for. Her brave vulnerability on page one had my captive attention. She shared some really hard things her family has walked through, and her transformation as a mom as a result. She shares what made the difference for her, and gives her reader the road map to peaceful, joyful mothering. Best of all, she gives every mom hope. No matter where you are, or where you’ve been, the truth found here can help you take the next step in truly loving your kids well. This book was a powerful reminder of how the Gospel really does change everything: including my parenting!

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This book is a fantastic resource. Crystal Paine offers hope, humor, and fantastic ideas for any parent. This is one I will return to again and again.

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Love-Centered Parenting: The No-Fail Guide to Launching Your Kids by Crystal Paine is an inspiring parenting book for those of us parenting younger children and wanting to do so with love and compassion. Paine begins her book by vulnerably confessing that she had been parenting from a place in which she cared greatly about what people thought of her as a parent, making sure her children were well-mannered, respectful, and behaved appropriately. However, it took an awakening with one of her children for her to realize that she needed to change the way she parented--to put God, herself, and her children first--and learn the lessons that she imparts with so much grace and humility in this book. Those lessons include, in part, two great chapters on "leaning in and loving" and "letting go." However, first, Paine spends a large amount of time reminding readers that God loves us. She writes, "We are loved. Period. Not because of who we are or what we've done, but because of who He is and what He's done." Paine believes that it is upon God's love that we can parent well, meaning that we can parent from a place of presence, love, and grace. This is an inspiring, impactful read that will be a good addition to parenting libraries everywhere.

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I have been following Crystal, the Money Saving Mom, for the last 5 or so years, and always appreciate her authenticity in her posts and podcasts. More recently, she has shared some transformations in her parenting, and how that has dramatically affected her life and the lives of her children. Being a new mom, I was intrigued by her new book, Love-Centered Parenting. I will admit, I’m a bit of a perfectionist. I like to read all the things, do all the research, and try to be the best at whatever it is I do. Parenting is no different, and I want to be the best version of myself I can be for my children. Personal growth is always a good thing, and I had started in on the search for the best parenting advice I could find. I figured a book with a focus on “love” in parenting would be a good read, and since it came from the perspective of someone I already admire, I thought I’d give it a shot.
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That is what this book has been for me. Remarkably freeing. This book was not the typical parenting book that I thought I had picked up. This book, instead, is full of so much wisdom, truth, real life, and, most importantly, relatability. Crystal shows vulnerability through opening up about events and her own personal thoughts and feelings, many of which I also find myself having on a daily basis. These are thoughts and feelings I thought I was alone in having, and I am comforted by the realization that I am not by myself. Moreover, I am never alone because God is with me and He loves me more deeply than I can comprehend. It is this truth that Crystal references throughout her book, and it is one that everyone needs to hear.
I didn’t know how much I needed to read this book until I started reading it. Love-Centered Parenting is transforming my relationship with God, my relationship with myself, and ultimately, my relationship with others.

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Love this book!! It has surprised me in so many ways and given me a different perspective on parenting. I can already see how is making a difference on my parenting journey. I would recommend it to everyone.

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As a new mom I know that parenting can be an overwhelming change in life. I want to be able to do it from a place of love and not from a place of frustration and this book is such a good guide for how to get there. It’s not your typical parenting advice book, it’s like sitting down with a friend and the way Crystal shares her own experiences is so very relatable and hopegiving.

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Hope for disheartened parents! Love-Centered Parenting is a book to add to your parenting toolbox ASAP! It offers a unique perspective on parenting as Crystal shares her journey through various parenting struggles. If your current style of parenting is leaving you frustrated and exhausted, this book is worth a read! The first part of the book has you step back and reflect first before offering practical applications. 

This book is parents of kids age 12 and under, but those with teenagers can still find value. If you work closely with parents or children, this would also be an excellent book for you, too. 

Thank you Bethany House and NetGalley for this advance reader copy in exchange for my honest review.

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Thank you so much to NetGalley and Bethany House Publishers for my copy of Love-Centered Parenting by Crystal Paine in exchange for an honest review. It published March 16, 2021.
I've been following Crystal's blog for years, so this book has been long-awaited, and highly-anticipated for me! And boy did it deliver! I love her voice and how she is walking out parenting alongside you, and regularly acknowledges that she's imperfect, rather than seeming holier than thou.
There are so many inspiring concepts in here, and so many practical things to put into place. I will definitely be trying to follow along this book, and definitely be buying this as a gift for loved-ones!

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Happy book mail and release day! I was sent an advanced copy of Love Centered Parenting from @themoneysavingmom and absolutely loved it! I have been following Crystal for years and really enjoy her down to earth, say it like it is, attitude. She is real and raw in this book and she shared stories (with permission) from her own parenting journey. This book has a lot more Christianity than Crystal’s other books and it was refreshing! I loved it!
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I think my absolute favorite take away is this: I don’t need to be perfect all I need to do is love my kids as God would love them. Sometimes that’s easier said than done...but love helps fix all. Swipe through to see some of my favorite parts.
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Have you read any of Crystal’s other books? If not give this one a try! I loved it and found such honest good truth in it.
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Love Centered Parenting is a book I wanted to read ever since I saw Crystal Paine’s post on Instagram. She is a lovely woman of God who is honest and open about her life as a parent and wife. This book literally grabbed my attention from the first couple of sentences in the first chapter. Crystal has a way of drawing her readers attention but not only that but also giving them an opportunity to understand how to apply what she is saying to their own lives. Being a mom of a teenager and a 10 year old, her thoughts about loving our children through the difficult times has helped change my perspective in how I talk to my children and parent them. This book is not about how to raise great kids who are completely obedient and never make mistakes. Crystal instead reminds us to live truth and not speak lies. Starting first with the parent, searching and uprooting lies that we believe about ourselves that are contrary to who God says we are also thinking about our kids and reminding them as well to speak the truth. Ultimately our goal in doing this is to point our children to Jesus and the gospel. Thank you NetGalley for the opportunity to read this insightful book.

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Excellent book with a different perspective on parenting. “The most impactful way you can help your kids understand God’s love is for them to see it lived out in your life on a daily basis.”
We need to be willing and able to admit our mistakes and be honest with our kids, leading by example. This book is an incredible resource to help you let go of the mom guilt and realize that you have little control over your children’s life choices and destination. “Love them like Jesus loves them. Live as loved.”

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Read this practical and super helpful book. Filled with first rate and first hand experience, Crystal Paine has answers and encouragement for the young mom and her family. Paine is forthright and on target with her ideas for managing time, expectations, and just general discipline. What works for her will probably work for you. Filled with examples and helpful structures and charts, this is a valuable source and would make a great gift. Perfect for the church or school library as foundational family leadership. Highest recommendation. Wisdom for now.

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Love-Centered Parenting by Crystal Paine is a great, great book for all parents. It is wonderful to read a parenting book that is focused on God's love and everything else comes from it -- as I find that is the most important thing. But in her book, Crystal Paine looks at what really matters: how you are as a parent, and how that affects your children. We can set all the rules we want but those likely do not make the change we would like to see in our children. All in all, this is a great book and I highly recommend this to all parents.

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Crystal Paine (the Money Saving Mom of blog fame) is coming out with a new parenting book. I received a copy in advance and promised to write an honest review.

I've now raised 7 children into adulthood and was very interested in finding out more about Crystal’s approach to raising her kids. I found all the parenting advice to be spot on and it closely reflected my own parenting journey. This is not a "how to change your children and make them behave" book. Nope. It's about how YOU as a parent can change YOUR heart and YOUR approach and forge a stronger, more positive relationship with your children. By doing that, the entire family benefits. And the approach works.

Crystal shares a lot of personal stories about her journey as a parent, and she does so while protecting the privacy of her children. This openness and honesty with her failures and successes will help other parents. For this alone, many will value her book.

This book is directed to evangelical Christian parents - and I'll be honest that is not me. I am not at all religious, although I grew up in the Episcopal Church. I do read Christian authored books (i.e. Jen Hatmaker), and often get good bits of wisdom from them after I filter out the religious references. So my question was - is this a book that will cross-over to the non-Christian audience? Unfortunately, it's not. The parenting advice is solid and spot-on, but this book is 100% written for Christians and in my opinion those with evangelical leanings. For me, the book was still excellent, but a non-religious reader would need to apply a filter to a good bit of the text.

So why a 4-star rating? Well, the book is written by a Christian, for Christians and published by a Christian publisher. For the targeted audience, this is a 100% fantastic book. I review books hoping to give potential readers insight about a book and whether it’s a fit for them.

Crystal comes from a legalist (I had to look that term up, that's how much I don't know) background and I think her message and the personal journey will resonate with others moving away from that perspective. I do wish the cover made it more apparent that this is a Christian book. My only other peeve is that the book subtitle talks about launching children, but by design, it's really about raising younger children. Crystal still needs to launch her children, and I look forward to that book as well.

So - If you are a Christian and looking for some excellent heartfelt and heart-led parenting advice, this is the book you need.

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Love-Centered Parenting: The No-Fail Guide to Launching Your Kids by Crystal Paine is a new Christian parenting book. I have been a follower of Crystal's blog (Money Saving Mom) for a few years and appreciate her tips on saving money. Her ministry has evolved over the years and now I really enjoy her openness at sharing about what she is learning from God as a parent as well. This book is honest and has great practical advice. I especially liked chapters 5-7 and will revisit this book again as a parenting resource. I highly recommend this book to parents. Thanks to Bethany House Publishers for this review copy.

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I am so fortunate to be on the launch team for this book -- it has affected me so much! In a good way! I had to stop several times while reading to take notes, so many of Crystal's words stopped me in my tracks. Especially this passage, "Instead, I heard myself utter some unexpected words, "You may not feel like you're beautiful right now, but the truth is that you are. I want you to know, you are welcome to voice how you're feeling (as in, 'I feel ugly') at any time. But I don't want you to make negative 'I am" statements about yourself, because they are actually lies, and we don't allow lying in our home".

I read that passage and just cried. I have a young daughter at home and she has already started the negative "I am" statements. I am SO thankful to Crystal for putting this book out there for all of us. I was hooked during the introduction. Her writing style is professional, but so easy to read and follow. She is thought-provoking and challenging, while also calming. It's a wonderful balance.

*Disclaimer: I am not Christian as the author is. There are Christian themes throughout the book, but I did not feel overwhelmed by them at all. If you are on the fence about reading because you are not aligned spiritually with the author, I encourage you to still give it a chance

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Love-Centered Parenting: The No-Fail Guide to Launching Your Kids by Crystal Paine is a wonderful book that all parents should read. This book is both simple yet profound. Ultimately, this author has learned a lot of lessons in her mom heart and she delivers them in this book. It is a treasure. She points parents to Jesus and gives meaningful action points at the end of each chapter. I highly recommend this book. I received a digital copy of this book from the publisher with no obligations. These opinions are entirely my own.

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Well written and engaging and fantastic advice for parents of young ones but since my kids are well past the early years, I didn’t glean much. Would definitely recommend to parents in an earlier stage though!

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Love-Centered Parenting by Crystal Paine is an inspired parenting book directly for all families. Crystal Paine is a well known blogger on the Money Saving Mom. She has four kids and her online persona is one of leading with love and admitting that not all is perfect. However, this book takes a deep dive and gives many examples of how we can lead with love and step into the complex world our kids have created.

What makes this book unique is the plethora of real life issues and how she handled it, right or maybe after some reflection incorrectly. You are given creative insights with the emphasis to make it your own. By taking the time to reflect and plan hard situations you are cementing God's word in your heart and sharing your light with your children. While it does have a biblical perspective it would be a valuable resource for all. The honesty is what makes this book special.

You can reflect upon the ideas shared and come up with your own strategies to impact your life. The stories were current and dealt with issues that families face. Your soul will truly be nourished, and peace can be achieved, as you take stock of where you are and do the work to get to where you want your family to be.

I was provided a free advance reader copy from Bethany House in exchange for my honest review on Net Galley. The opinions shared in this review are my own.

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One of the best things about this book is that it doesn't just tell you what to do as a parent, it takes you through Crystal's experience and how she got to the point she is now as a parent. I think this book could really change people's lives if they are not parenting this way, and could be a great help to parents and their children to find a better way before the critical teen years where a kid can get derailed if they don't know that their parents love them above everything else.

I think the vast majority of parents feel intense love for their kids, but they don't always know how to translate that love into the actions that are best for them and that will show that love to them in the best possible way. Some of that is because they were not loved in the best possible way themselves. Some of it may be because they haven't experienced God's love in a transforming way themselves. This book will help with all of that and make an impact on a family that could last many generations.

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What a beautiful book about really loving our kids and responding to them in love as Christ loves them instead of always being so quick with a sermon or responding out of exasperation. This was a really god read and had lots of really good tips! I got this book for my honest review from Netgalley.

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This was a different type of book for me to pick up and read. I am so grateful for the honesty and transparency that Crystal Paine provided in these pages. I found some helpful words for me and my family. I loved how I can take the words and the work the Paine Family laid out and apply it in a way that works for us.

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