So Many Babies

My Life Balancing A Busy Medical Career & Motherhood

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Pub Date May 04 2021 | Archive Date Jul 15 2021
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Description

Neonatologist Susan Landers, MD Shares in Memoir the Traumatic Life & Death Choices Parents Face When Their Sick or Premature Baby Needs the NICU  (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit)

In the United States nearly half a million babies are born preterm (before 37-weeks of pregnancy), have an illness, low birth weight (under 5.5 pounds), a multiple (twin/triplet), a major congenital malformation, or other critical care scenarios when admitted to the NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit).

Many of these children receive care and recover with the help of neonatologists and other specialists, and eventually leave the unit as healthy, thriving babies. However, for other babies who are extremely premature or those with an inoperable birth defect, there are traumatic and stressful times for parents – especially the moms – who are confronted with life and death choices for their babies.

In So Many Babies, Neonatologist Susan Landers, MD, shares the stories of the close relationships that NICU staff and parents develop during some of the most distressing times of their sick child(ren)’s lives. In addition, Dr. Landers’ memoir describes how the practice of neonatology shaped and influenced her life experience. (So Many Babies: My Life Balancing A Busy Medical Career & Motherhood; publication date: May 4, 2021 eBook ISBN 978-1-63195-451-1 $17.95 /September 14, 2021 Paperback, ISBN 978-1-63195-450-4 $17.95)

As a neonatologist for over thirty-five years and a mother to three of her own children, Dr. Landers describes how the full-time practice of neonatology influenced her experience as a mother. As a neonatologist, she survived and thrived during a lengthy NICU practice, and she relates her experiences of finding resilience and endurance, managing to postpone burnout until late in her career. The book describes many technological changes that she witnessed over decades in neonatal medicine and high-risk obstetrics, such as infertility treatments and multiple births. Also, her experience in the NICU is illustrated by many poignant life-and-death scenarios, including stories about complex, critically ill patients, and their worried parents, each one touching her life.

In So Many Babies, Dr. Landers discusses:

• Working in the NICU and the roles of various specialists who helped care for critically ill babies.

• Heart wrenching stories of babies who did not survive and how their parents continued.

• When physicians disagree about treatment decisions that affect the quality of life for a child.

• The roles of doctor’s counsel and parental wishes.

• The high costs of infertility and multiple births.

• The toughest clinical cases that provided challenging ethical dilemmas.

• Moms feeling guilt after having a preterm baby, after losing a baby, experiencing post-partum depression, and enduring other extreme stresses in the NICU.

• Vulnerable Child Syndrome and divorce rates among parents of NICU survivors.

• Advocacy for breastfeeding medicine and donor human milk banks.

• Physician burnout – with a warning for women in the medical field and tips for prevention.

• Every mother’s desire: to be a “good enough” mother.

• The American Mother Culture – can women ever REALLY have it all without motherhood guilt in their careers.

• And so much more …

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Susan Landers, MD

Dr. Susan Landers is a neonatologist, which is a pediatrician with extra training in the care of sick and premature babies. Her first book, So Many Babies will be published in May 2021. After attending Auburn University, in Auburn, Alabama, Dr. Landers graduated in 1973 and received two BS degrees, in Biology and Chemistry. Dr. Landers attended medical school at the Medical University of South Carolina, in Charleston, South Carolina. After completing medical school, she completed three years of pediatric residency training at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical School in Dallas, Texas. Next, she completed three years of neonatology fellowship at Baylor College of Medicine affiliated hospitals, in Houston, Texas. Dr. Landers practiced academic neonatology for fourteen years and private practice neonatology for eighteen years. While caring for patients full-time in private practice, she served as a speaker for the Texas Department of State Health Services. She was the Medical Director of the Mothers’ Milk Bank at Austin and served on the milk bank’s board of directors. Additionally, she served on the Executive Committee of the Section on Breastfeeding for the AAP. Together with her husband, Dr. Phillip Berry, she raised three children, one son and two daughters. Her family resides in Austin TX.


Neonatologist Susan Landers, MD Shares in Memoir the Traumatic Life & Death Choices Parents Face When Their Sick or Premature Baby Needs the NICU  (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit)

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A Note From the Publisher

After attending Auburn University, in Auburn, Alabama, Dr. Landers graduated in 1973 and received two BS degrees, in Biology and Chemistry. There, she was elected to Mortar Board, the National Women’s Honorary. Dr. Landers attended medical school at the Medical University of South Carolina, in Charleston, South Carolina. There, she was elected to Alpha Omega Alpha (AOA), the National Medical Honorary, and graduated in 1977.
After completing medical school, she completed three years of pediatric residency training at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical School in Dallas, Texas, from 1977 to 1980. Next, she completed three years of neonatology fellowship at Baylor College of Medicine affiliated hospitals, in Houston, Texas, from 1980 to 1983.

Dr. Landers practiced academic neonatology for fourteen years and private practice neonatology for eighteen years. While in academic medicine she served on the faculty of two medical schools, Baylor College of Medicine in Houston, and the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences in Little Rock. She conducted clinical research, published more than twenty peer-reviewed papers, and taught medical students, residents, and fellows.

While caring for patients full-time in private practice, she served as a speaker for the Texas Department of State Health Services from 1997 to 1998. She was the Medical Director of the Mothers’ Milk Bank at Austin, from 2000 to 2004, and served on the milk bank’s board of directors from 2006 to 2009.

Even though she worked full-time, Dr. Landers continued to publish papers and worked for the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP). She was a nationally recognized expert in breastfeeding medicine and achieved elite status as a Fellow of the Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine (FABM) in 2002. She served as a major presenter at physician education programs at AAP and ABM national meetings for nearly a decade. Ultimately, she served on the Executive Committee of the Section on Breastfeeding for the AAP from 2008 until 2014. In that capacity she contributed to several policy statements and clinical guidelines published by the AAP, an additional four peer-reviewed publications, and a book chapter. In 2008, she received a national award for Outstanding Accomplishments in Quality Improvement from Pediatrix Medical Group (now known as Mednax).

Together with her husband, Dr. Phillip Berry, she raised three children, one son and two daughters. Her family resides in Austin, TX. So Many Babies is her first book.

After attending Auburn University, in Auburn, Alabama, Dr. Landers graduated in 1973 and received two BS degrees, in Biology and Chemistry. There, she was elected to Mortar Board, the National...


Advance Praise

PRAISE FOR SUSAN LANDERS, MD

I found Dr. Landers’ book full of excellent anecdotes and ripe with the valuable perspective of a working mother who has seen her children through all sorts of ups and downs…. Dr. Landers was deeply affected by her work as a neonatologist such as her awareness that it could have been her child with the congenital heart defect. I highly recommend the book for mothers looking for guidance and perspective on parenting.

---Kelly Fradin, MD, author of Parenting in a Pandemic


I can’t say enough wonderful things about Dr. Landers. When I started as a NICU RN 20+ years ago I was already impressed with her and scared of her. In time, I have come to realize the barriers she had overcome and what all she truly had accomplished. She was the first female neonatologist is a sea of men. She had a reputation for being blunt and aggressive. The following are traits I have come to love and appreciate about Susan – even though I was not able to fully appreciate as a young nurse. This is what I know now: She is a trail blazer. She is passionate about all the important things to women – equality, motherhood, friendship, and work/life balance. She sacrificed so that women following in her footsteps could thrive. I respect her. I love her. I listen to her. I appreciate her. And I am grateful she continues to share her hard-fought wisdom and truth with the world – especially with working women and moms. --Mandy Vickers, RN

The reality is that in real life, Dr. Landers had to compartmentalize the mothering part from the doctoring part, which is something that she was required to do over her professional career. It is interesting to note that I could tell a very different Susan as she was moving through these different compartments in the book. Does that make sense? And again, there is no way to separate both parts of her life because they each had their own significance. She did a really nice job talking about her upbringing and particularly being a child of the South. This had a profound impact on her as an adult, and that resonated with me. I so appreciated her frankness and honesty in talking about her marriage and talking about her kids. I think when you’re an accomplished professional as she was (and as I like to think that I am) I think it’s challenging to be transparent about that. One of the things that has worked in my practice and has been frankly healing for me is admitting to other moms especially moms of adult children that we all do the best that we can and to remember that it’s important to give grace to ourselves. It is always amazing that, while we are kind and accommodating to other people, we don’t always give that back to ourselves. Anyway, I loved her book -- Nancy Shepherd, MSN, LCSW


PRAISE FOR SUSAN LANDERS, MD

I found Dr. Landers’ book full of excellent anecdotes and ripe with the valuable perspective of a working mother who has seen her children through all sorts of ups and...


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If you have ever wanted a glimpse into the life of a neonatologist or even a working mother, this book would be worth your read. As a mother with experience in the NICU, it was interesting to read about the struggles from the other side of the NICU, a doctor spending every day with babies' lives in the balance. At points the book had repetitive comments that were enough to cause a "bump" in my reading, but overall the book had a easy-to-read nature while explaining the challenges of managing responsibilities at home and the high-risk responsibility of managing care for extremely risky babies. The book offers a unique and interesting insight into life and relationships as an on-call healthcare provider.

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Thank you to NetGalley and Morgan James Publishing for providing me with a copy of this eARC in exchange for an honest review.

Dr Landers has a neonatology career spanning over 30 years. In this book she talks about the challenges of being a successful practitioner and the difficulties of being a working mother. She pulls no punches when talking about her parenting, and how her work hours affected her children. She also details her achievements within her field (breastfeeding being a big one) as well as some successes and losses with her tiny patients.

This is more of a memoir than a straight book of case studies. I’m definitely more for the stories, but I did enjoy reading about how neonatology has improved in the 30-odd years since Dr Landers started working. It was also illuminating reading the story of a professional woman who freely admits that working and being a mother can be stupidly hard.

Also, this book is not for the faint hearted. There are stories of infant death - fairly standard given the gestational ages and health conditions these babies were dealing with - and also stories of babies who survived, with the question of how much is too much when it comes to intervention? It’s a difficult question with no definitive answer, but one that’s worth asking.

I think my only quibble with this book is I would’ve loved it to be longer! I’m sure Dr Landers has done and seen far more than she’s shared here and I’d love to hear more of her stories.

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Interesting read. I enjoy medical drama shows and the author gives an inside look at what life is like to take care of the smallest of patients. ( side note-Thank goodness, I didn’t read this book before having children- I had no idea how much could go wrong despite all the advancements of good prenatal care. Id be seriously freaked out had I known) .

She struggles with the same challenges that all professionals do- how to keep your career moving ahead, avoid being overlooked and preventing burnout from the all consuming needs of a job.
This is coupled with the role of a being a working mother. Dr Susan pulls no punches are she tells us about the struggles of raising three children while continuously working a 70 hour plus work weeks. She never felt good enough ( do we EVER?) and often felt like she was failing her kids, while caring for other peoples. Her career fed her mind, and her soul, and she needed to work. Her children all have real challenges- anxiety, learning disabilities, anorexia, depression and other challenges. She did her best, used her professional connections to help them - resources a stay at home Mom wouldn’t have, perhaps improving their outcomes. She was there for them when they truly needed it.
Her story is raw and vulnerable. She admits hitting and yelling at them in times of frustration. The shame of being human and failing to achieve the ideals.
As I read I thought about what I would have done in her shoes. I too worked long hours as I climbed the corporate ladder - my work fed my sense of self worth, like nothing else. After all, mothers never receive a rating “Outstanding” performance, or “ Top contributor”.
I understand completely how she felt. The trade off was that I too missed many precious moments with my beautiful son. Looking back- I do wish that I had put my family before my career a bit more often. Maybe even in small ways -leave the office 30 minutes or an hour earlier sometime each week.
Still in the end, children can thrive in many different environments- our son grew up to be a beautiful, creative, kind, independent young man. We have a great adult relationship, So perhaps, Our best is often good enough.

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I am not sure what I expected upon beginning this book but was pleased with what I found within the pages. Landers found a perfect balance between the real life struggles of her professional life and the rewards that keep her returning each day. I appreciated the honestly about the strains experienced by a working mother in a highly stressful field.

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