Written expressly for the spouse or partner of the person with anger management issues, this straight-talking book provides clear-cut, practical techniques for dealing with unacceptable expressions of anger. Readers learn how their usual responses to their partner may unwittingly reward bad behavior and how to stand up for themselves in ways that promote lasting change. Hopeful and optimistic in tone, the volume is ideal for recommendation to individuals or couples in therapy. Self-quizzes and step-by-step problem-solving strategies are grounded in cognitive-behavioral principles and illustrated with true-to-life examples. The author includes crucial guidance on how to distinguish anger from abuse, and what to do when a partner crosses the line.