Empire of Orgasm
Sex, Power, and the Downfall of a Wellness Cult
by Ellen Huet
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Pub Date Nov 18 2025 | Archive Date Dec 18 2025
Description
“This isn’t just a tale of one cultish company—it’s a mirror held up to tech’s dark side, so full of greed and self-delusion.” —Ashlee Vance, New York Times bestselling author of When the Heavens Went on Sale and Elon Musk
A cautionary tale of sex and salvation for the wellness generation: how orgasmic meditation turned into a cult.
OneTaste hoped orgasm would change the world. Emerging in the midst of the late-aughts for-profit wellness boom, the company was unwavering in its faith in orgasmic meditation, or OM, a fifteen-minute practice involving a woman being clitorally stimulated by a clothed, usually male partner. Nicole Daedone, the group’s magnetic and cunning founder, envisioned a world where OM was as widespread as yoga. But Daedone’s vision came at a price: behind the militant loyalty she inspired and the millions of dollars in sales was what former members describe as a cult of manipulation, abuse, and coercion driven by a relentless quest for control. And by the time the FBI showed up at her door in 2023 with an indictment alleging that she had conspired to commit forced labor, even Daedone herself was no longer safe.
Building on the viral Bloomberg article that exposed the dark sides of OneTaste and of Daedone, Ellen Huet’s Empire of Orgasm tells how a boundary-pushing wellness program became a cult that, according to dozens of witnesses, ruthlessly exploited its members. Huet, the undeniable authority on the group, reveals how, in demanding absolute fealty to Daedone on the path to enlightenment and healing, OneTaste pushed its followers past their limits—sexually, emotionally, financially—and left the lives of many in shambles. The story culminates in Daedone’s conviction in June 2025 after a five-week criminal trial.
A riveting saga and a nuanced exploration of the mechanics of manipulation, Empire of Orgasm is an extraordinary account of wellness gone wrong.
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Advance Praise
"Ellen Huet has written a harrowing, exquisitely crafted account of perhaps the strangest cult in history and the almost biblical downfall of its larger-than-life leader. You won't be able to put this book down." —Brad Stone, New York Times bestselling author of Amazon Unbound
"With her ultra-vivid reporting, Ellen Huet guides us through a surreal San Francisco subculture where sex served as currency and the boundary between empowerment and exploitation was obliterated. This isn’t just a tale of one cultish company—it’s a mirror held up to tech’s dark side, so full of greed and self-delusion." —Ashlee Vance, New York Times bestselling author of When the Heavens Went on Sale and Elon Musk
"In Empire of Orgasm, Ellen Huet deftly pens a thrilling tale on the collision of founder worship and cult behavior. Huet brings an engrossing, inside-the-room look at the rise and fall of an exploitative machine fueled on Silicon Valley hype." —Eliot Brown, bestselling author of The Cult of We
"Don't try to imagine what wellness industry die-hards will do in the name of women's empowerment, because the truth is far more outrageous. Ellen Huet's jaw-dropping insider access feels like a sleepover at the San Francisco warehouse where OneTaste devotees worked, ate, slept, hooked up, and showered in groups. A detailed, nuanced, and compelling account of a woman who cultivated an army of pleasure seekers, was celebrated as a trailblazer, and ultimately faced charges for her push to sell hands-on sexual enlightenment to the masses." —Sarah Berman, author of Don't Call It A Cult
"I’ve watched Ellen Huet follow this story with rigor and empathy for years, and the result is a compelling—and astonishing—work of journalism. Empire of Orgasm isn’t just about a strange, seductive subculture—it’s a profound exploration of consent, sexual agency, and the contradictions of female power. Huet gives voice to women (and men) grappling with desire, manipulation, and autonomy in ways that feel urgently relevant far beyond the so-called 'cult' itself." —Emily Chang, nationally bestselling author of Brotopia: Breaking Up the Boys' Club of Silicon Valley
Available Editions
| EDITION | Other Format |
| ISBN | 9780374604196 |
| PRICE | $30.00 (USD) |
| PAGES | 416 |
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Featured Reviews
Meet the new cult — same as the old cult. It seems that while cults find new ways to sell their wares, or should I say control, they inevitably end the same way. Namely, every cult eventually becomes a sex cult. OneTaste skipped the beginning and intermediate steps by going directly to sex cult so they get points of some type of innovation.
Ellen Huet tells the story of OneTaste in her exquisitely reported Empire of Orgasm. (Obviously, additional points for the titillating title.) For those unaware of OneTaste, it was founded by a sociopath named Nicole Daedone. Daedone stole the methods of older cults and added a feminist twist. Namely, many introductions to the organization involved full frontal nudity and sexual contact in front of a room full of attendees. Before you think maybe this is just a women trying to win in a man's world, let me assure you that she could be just as despicable as any man. She could, and she did.
Huet writes the type of book I love from a journalist. There is no long diatribes about what Huet thinks. Instead, she did the legwork of talking to everyone who would make themselves available. She tells both sides of the story and is willing to place the responsibility on the reader to decide what is harmless, harmful, and downright sadistic. This is a wonderfully built narrative which makes me want to read anything Huet puts out. There will be plenty of books, documentaries, and podcasts which will only tell you the dirty details. Huet tells you the whole story. That's my favorite.
(This book was provided as a review copy by NetGalley and FSG Books.)
Little did I know that one of my random 2am scrolls through upcoming releases would result in me coming across one of the most engrossing nonfiction books l've read this year! I'm going to assume that future readers (who didn't have prior knowledge of OneTaste (aka me)) will go through a series of thoughts when they come across this book. For me, that thought process was "wow that's a pretty cover! wait... did I just see the word "orgasm"? *scrolls back up to see if my eyes were playing tricks on me* well... definitely didn't imagine that! But what the heck is OneTaste?"
Which then led me to request this book on NetGalley, and I'm so glad I did!
Empire of Orgasm by Ellen Huet completely captivated me from start to finish. I went into this book not knowing anything about OneTaste, and I was blown away by how eye-opening and deeply researched it was. Every single moment of this story had my jaw dropping in disbelief.
Huet's writing is sharp, balanced, and endlessly compelling-she manages to tell a story that's both investigative journalism and human drama. It's disturbing, fascinating, and impossible to put down. I occasionally read chapters out loud to my husband, and he found it to be just as shocking as I did! I found myself thinking about it long after finishing, and I even continued to look up stories and research after I was finished.
This is a must-read for anyone interested in power, consent, and the fine line between empowerment and exploitation A huge thank you to NetGalley and Farrar, Straus and Giroux for the eARC!
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