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How It Feels to Be Alive

Encounters with Art and Our Selves

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Pub Date Apr 21 2026 | Archive Date May 21 2026


Description

A vital testament to how art makes us who we are—and offers new ways of seeing our world and our lives.

Barbara Kruger once defined art as “the ability to show and tell, through a kind of eloquent shorthand, how it feels to be alive.” Testing that claim, How It Feels to Be Alive braids criticism with personal narrative to consider art’s intimate effects and how it might help us find clarity in an uncertain world.

When Megan O'Grady was a teenager, she saw a photograph in a museum that changed her life. At the end of an early marriage, art stoked new ways of thinking about connection and transformation. As a new parent, it guided her to confront vulnerability and shame. Whether seeking a home or contending with crises personal, political, and ecological, art was a critical lifeline, a source of beauty, solace, and provocation.

Looking closely at five artworks and the context in which each was made—often drawing on personal conversations with the artists—O’Grady examines the work’s rippling impact, implicating sometimes unexpected lineages and genres. How does art expand and redirect our imaginations and attention? When bottom-line or nihilistic thinking dominates our public sphere, what meanings and alternatives does it offer? A vital call to engage deeply, to see in new ways, and to rethink all that we take for granted, How It Feels to Be Alive inspires and exhorts, providing a template to think through the knottiest problems in our culture, our selves, and the connections between the two.

A vital testament to how art makes us who we are—and offers new ways of seeing our world and our lives.

Barbara Kruger once defined art as “the ability to show and tell, through a kind of eloquent...


A Note From the Publisher

Megan O’Grady is a critic and an essayist. She was a writer at large for T: The New York Times Style Magazine, where she created the Culture Therapist column. Her reviews and essays about art and life also appear in The New York Review of Books, The New Yorker, and The New York Times Book Review. She was a contributing editor at Vogue and a fellow at the Nieman Foundation for Journalism at Harvard University. Currently, she is an assistant professor of art and art history at the University of Colorado in Boulder, where she lives with her family.

Megan O’Grady is a critic and an essayist. She was a writer at large for T: The New York Times Style Magazine, where she created the Culture Therapist column. Her reviews and essays about art and...


Advance Praise

“How—now that you mention it—does it feel to be alive? A bit like reading Megan O’Grady’s book, stained with blood and beauty, as she fearlessly claws at the artificial veil between art and life and shows that, as anyone who has any experience of either knows, life and art are indivisible. In a book that is autobiographical without being an autobiography, astute in its criticism without ever being hemmed in by the conventions of critics, deeply learned without being academic, she invents a new model of writing about art—and that, as it happens, is also a new way of writing about life.”—Benjamin Moser, author of The Upside-Down World: Meetings with the Dutch Masters

“This book is a highly original take on the art and life conundrum. Megan O’Grady discusses these lucky artists and their work in the context of her own life and experiences, elements so tightly interwoven that they often merge, producing a new kind of memoir and a new kind of art writing—some of the best I’ve read. O’Grady is an acute and eloquent observer, not only of art and artists, but also of multiple political, environmental, and feminist issues, especially motherhood, which runs like a subterranean stream beneath the narrative. Her responses to the wizardry of art that is so difficult to pin down are personal, but never exclusive, inviting us all to share or identify or disagree.” —Lucy R. Lippard, author of Moving Targets: Feminist Essays on Women’s Art 1970–1993

“How—now that you mention it—does it feel to be alive? A bit like reading Megan O’Grady’s book, stained with blood and beauty, as she fearlessly claws at the artificial veil between art and life and...


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ISBN 9780374613327
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PAGES 272

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