One Last Question Before You Go
Why You Should Interview Your Parents
by Kyle Thiermann
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Pub Date Nov 18 2025 | Archive Date Mar 31 2026
Scribe Media | Lioncrest Publishing
Description
How well do you know your parents? Really.
Kyle Thiermann’s dad once bought a hot-air balloon off a hitchhiker. His mom and stepdad are trying to spread a conspiracy theory. Now, with his first book, Kyle wanders the American West—through rich redwood forests, seedy surf culture, and a 1997 RV with teal carpet interior—to probe how asking the right questions can change a relationship. Blending witty narrative with practical advice and twenty-seven bold questions, the popular podcast host and pro big wave surfer shows that interviewing our parents can create way more than digital family heirlooms. It can reframe the way we see each other.
One Last Question Before You Go is part story, part strategy—and entirely unexpected.
Advance Praise
“This book is a gentle wake-up call—an invitation to have the conversations we’ll one day wish we’d started sooner. Insightful, heartfelt, and wild, it shows that interviewing your parents isn’t just about recording their stories—it’s about discovering your own.”
—Rich Roll, podcast host and bestselling author of Finding Ultra.
“I have never read anything like this. One Last Question Before You Go reminds us that our most profound inheritance isn’t in our genes; it’s in our stories. Funny, surprising, and very wise.”
—Christopher Ryan, PhD, bestselling coauthor of Sex at Dawn.
"The best book about how and why to interview your parents? Yes. But I was not expecting his own stories to be so fascinating, too. Couldn't stop reading, start-to-finish."
—Derek Sivers, author of Anything You Want.
“Over the years, my kids would occasionally ask me what superpower I would choose if I could pick one. Knowing what people secretly thought was often at the top of the list. When Kyle chose our family as the backdrop for this book, I inadvertently got my wish. I had no idea how hard, funny, and valuable it would be.”
—Kimberly, Kyle’s mom.
“Thiermann made his name charging Northern California’s cold, rugged waters, but it’s his prowess as a storyteller that separates him from the pack.”
—SURFER magazine.
“While talking with adults in therapy or everyday life, you can feel the weight of what’s been unsaid to their parents: the questions they wish they’d asked, the words they wish they’d said. And often now it’s too late. So I am delighted by One Last Question Before You Go, full of deep insights, good humor, and practical suggestions. I wish I’d had it myself with my own parents.”
—Rick Hanson, PhD, bestselling author of Buddha’s Brain, Resilient, and Making Great Relationships.
“With wit, intelligence, and optimism, Thiermann reveals that by asking the questions we’d rather avoid and by zooming in on the events we’d rather forget, we can heal what’s broken and learn to listen, forgive, and love in a much deeper way.”
—Adam Skolnick, author of American Tiger.
"I never knew my mom was once a go-go dancer in Harlem."
—Matt, Reader
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Featured Reviews
Oh I wonder what responses I would get from my very Kenyan, very African Mother to these questions! It's what made reading this book such a thrill, and I think we could definitely have a whole conversation about "what's a belief that got you into trouble?"
I loved these stories and more so these experiences because it reminded me of the sheer brilliance, life, dreams, light and expectations that our parents may have that we never get to ask to know about and I am even more grateful that this book made me excited at the thought of having such conversations with my Mother.
Thanks Netgalley for the eARC.
Reviewer 1889658
I read One Last Question Before You Go in one sitting on a rainy day and I really, really loved it. Kyle Thiermann rips through family history with surfer grit and a reporter’s curiosity, and his writing is so vivid it pulls you straight into the ride.
The book is part wild memoir, part how-to manual, and all heart. Kyle weaves absurd road stories with twenty-seven razor-sharp questions that can crack open your own family’s vault. It is not just about recording memories, it is about re-wiring how we see the people who raised us.
Funny, raw, and unexpectedly moving, this is not a book you skim and forget. It is the kind of book that makes you want to call your parents and reminds you that they are not just 'your parents' They had entire lives before us, and those stories are worth asking about.
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