Secret Women
What we hide and why
by Vanessa Holburn
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Pub Date Jan 22 2026 | Archive Date Not set
Aurora Metro Books | River Light Press
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Description
Why do some women either have to, or choose to, live secret lives? We all have secrets, but what drives these women to hide part of themselves from others?
This book explores the hidden lives of a diverse group of women who operate with a degree of subterfuge, mystery or deliberate deception.
From Freemasonry to fetishism, from witches to activists and survivors, the reasons for secrecy are as different as the women themselves. Together, they represent a rich tapestry of female experience, sensitively recounted by the author as she delves into each woman’s secret.
Vanessa Holburn is the author of six non-fiction books including Surviving the Holocaust and Stalin and How to Be an Activist.
Holburn lived in Hong Kong for several years before returning to the UK to focus on her lifestyle writing. As a journalist, she has published articles and features in many of the leading magazines and newspapers in the UK.
Advance Praise
““I'm so glad someone has written this book! It’s both tantalising and important. If you’ve ever wondered about the secrets uncovered by activists, spies, private detectives, magicians and even female freemasons (yes, they do exist) read Vanessa Holburn’s fascinating new book - a book which also gives a voice to those who’ve previously been silenced. Secret Women opens up an intriguing world of female empowerment.” -- Lucinda Hawksley, author
"Vanessa Holburn’s Secret Women is a profoundly humane and revelatory work that gives voice to women whose truths have too often been silenced. With journalistic precision and deep empathy, Holburn unearths the hidden lives of women across continents and generations, showing how secrecy can be both shield and shackle. What makes this book unique is its balance of courage and compassion; each story illuminates not only survival but solidarity. In a moment when women’s autonomy and safety remain globally contested, this book could save lives and sanity alike. Every educator, policymaker, therapist, and ally should read it, then listen harder.” — Sarah Tucker, best-selling author, journalist and broadcaster
“Secrets can be terrifying, protective, comforting and often deeply complex. For many women, they’re also shaped by shame, trauma, and the fear of being truly seen and what the repercussions might be. Secret Women creates a safe space for these hidden truths to come into the light. As a clinical psychologist, I know how liberating it can be when silence is transformed. This book offers that liberation with tenderness and courage.” –Dr Marianne Trent, Clinical Psychologist
“A fascinating journey captivating women’s psyche through bold, compelling and deeply relatable case studies, why we keep secrets, what kinds we keep and which ones keep us. Impeccably written, deeply investigative and profoundly honest. Vanessa Holburn holds up a mirror in which every woman will see herself, in one secret or two.” — Rose Sgueglia, Author, Journalist and Researcher
Praise for other books by the same author
“How To Be An Activist is a fantastic book, bringing people from all walks of life into politics to ensure that citizens’ campaigns thrive.” — Dr Lisa Cameron MP
“We all have an inner activist and, with world leaders largely refusing to properly engage on everything from climate change to mental health, there’s never been a more important time to harness her. This book allows you to learn from the experiences of trail-blazing campaigners and make your own positive difference.”
–Natasha Devon MBE, activist and author of A Beginner’s Guide to Being Mental
“I knew shamefully little about the Amritsar Massacre until I picked up this book – and it answered all my questions. Following a clear structure it gives a concise account of British rule in India, making it easy to read and understand what happened at Amritsar, why it happened and the implications on events that followed. A good introduction to this period in
history.” ***** — Diane Stenning, Amazon reviewer
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Available Editions
| EDITION | Paperback |
| ISBN | 9781068467400 |
| PRICE | £15.99 (GBP) |
| PAGES | 212 |
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I received a free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
This book is an informative and eye-opening look at the secrets women around the world are forced to keep, and the cultural, political, and personal reasons behind that silence. It covers a huge range of topics including mental health, domestic abuse, sex work, witchcraft, Taliban resistance, and more. Because the scope is so broad, I often felt like we were speeding through subjects that deserved more space and depth.
What stood out most to me was the emotional journey the book took me on. I experienced a whole spectrum of feelings, at times I felt proud to be a woman, inspired by the strength and resilience shown in certain chapters. Other sections left me feeling sad or angry about the realities women are still forced to endure. A few moments sparked genuine hopefulness about how far we’ve come, but also deep frustration that we still have such a very long way to go.
Some chapters hit harder than others. I had to skip the part about animal abuse in Morocco, as I find that extremely distressing to read about. The chapters on domestic abuse were difficult too, though as someone who works regularly with victims, they were sadly not unfamiliar to me. The statistics throughout the book were often shocking and forced me to sit with some uncomfortable truths.
Overall, I’m glad I read this. It’s powerful, and it will absolutely spark conversations, but for me, its biggest strength (the range of stories) was also its weakness. I would have preferred fewer topics explored in more depth.
This book offers a thoughtful and wide-ranging exploration of why some women live with secrecy and how those hidden lives are shaped by culture, power, safety, and survival. I appreciated the diversity of voices and experiences included, which together form a compelling picture of the many ways secrecy can function as both protection and burden.
What stood out to me most was the emotional impact. Some chapters were inspiring in their portrayal of resilience and quiet resistance, while others were confronting and uncomfortable, forcing reflection on realities many women still face. The author approaches each subject with sensitivity, allowing space for empathy rather than judgment.
While the scope is broad and some topics move quickly, I still found the overall reading experience engaging and thought-provoking. This is a book that encourages discussion and reflection, and I would recommend it to readers interested in women’s lived experiences, social issues, and nonfiction that challenges assumptions.