Sorted

Growing Up, Coming Out, and Finding My Place (A Transgender Memoir)

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Pub Date Sep 24 2019 | Archive Date Nov 15 2019
Tiller Press | S&S/Simon Element

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An unflinching and endearing memoir from LGBTQ+ advocate Jackson Bird about how he finally sorted things out and came out as a transgender man.

When Jackson Bird was twenty-five, he came out as transgender to his friends, family, and anyone in the world with an internet connection.

Assigned female at birth and raised as a girl, he often wondered if he should have been born a boy. Jackson didn’t share this thought with anyone because he didn’t think he could share it with anyone. Growing up in Texas in the 1990s, he had no transgender role models. He barely remembers meeting anyone who was openly gay, let alone being taught that transgender people existed outside of punchlines.

In this “soulful and heartfelt coming-of-age story” (Jamia Wilson, director and publisher of the Feminist Press), Jackson chronicles the ups and downs of growing up gender-confused. Illuminated by journal entries spanning childhood to adolescence to today, he candidly recalls the challenges and loneliness he endured as he came to terms with both his gender and his bisexual identity.

With warmth and wit, Jackson also recounts how he navigated the many obstacles and quirks of his transition––like figuring out how to have a chest binder delivered to his NYU dorm room and having an emotional breakdown at a Harry Potter fan convention. From his first shot of testosterone to his eventual top surgery, Jackson lets you in on every part of his journey—taking the time to explain trans terminology and little-known facts about gender and identity along the way.

“A compassionate, tender-hearted, and accessible book for anyone who might need a hand to hold as they walk through their own transition or the transition of a loved one” (Austin Chant, author of Peter Darling), Sorted demonstrates the power and beauty in being yourself, even when you’re not sure who “yourself” is.
An unflinching and endearing memoir from LGBTQ+ advocate Jackson Bird about how he finally sorted things out and came out as a transgender man.

When Jackson Bird was twenty-five, he came out as...

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ISBN 9781982130756
PRICE $24.99 (USD)
PAGES 192

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Though I have never watched Jackson on YouTube I recognized his name and face from interactions with YouTubers that I have watched and internet places where he has been involved. While this helped me to understand some of the events, people, and places he talked about in his book I don't find that necessary at all.

I though this memoir was extremely well written. It was heartfelt, real, and also showed so much learning and growth. I really loved the section about terminology at the beginning, but also the sections throughout the book to explain things that came up and how to interact with people in your life who are coming out and who are transgender.

This book felt like it was written from the heart and I felt like I was travelling along this journey with Jackson and think it is great for people who know who he is, but also for those looking for a real and honest memoir.

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I am so excited to buy my finished copy of this book if preordering if your jam than 100% go and do that right about now.
This is the kind of memoir that makes me remember why my fantasy, science fiction, and YA farce loving self also sort of thinks non-fiction might be the best genre. When a true story, on any scale, is written well with a cohesive narrative, it completely kicks ass.
Sorted is a memoir following Jackson Birds life through the lens of gender. The narrative is so tight, funny, and informative without feeling unapproachable. We get a glimpse into many aspects of what it is like growing up trans, a Texan, a Harry Potter nerd, and the struggles of early adulthood.
Quick acknowledgment, I have been following Bird's online presence for quite some time. I started as an occasional Will it Waffle viewer and was probably aware of his youtube channel because I was deep into the Harry Potter side of the internet as soon as I was on the internet. I am a pretty regular viewer of his youtube content and am eagerly awaiting more of his podcast. I have been known to lightly trash talk some internet people turned authors. Despite that, I am delighted to have to eat crow on my assertion that I would no longer read internet peoples books (I am also dying to read Akilah Hughes' Obviously). I loved this book and genuinely think it is terrific.
I found this book incredibly relatable and assume that a wide array of people will agree with me here. I figured out towards the end of the book that his home town is about 20-30 minutes from where I lived for a few years as a small child. I related so hardcore to the annoyance of being perceived as a person much younger than you are. This book would have been worth it to read if only for learning that I am not the only person over 18 to have been carded for a PG-13 movie, he handled this with much more grace than I did. I also tend to love musings on early career building as a 20 something figuring out what to do with life.
The narrative of this book has small sections of more educational content on the trans or queer community that are clearly delineated and work really well with the narrative. I am not anywhere near an expert on gender, but I believe that the educational component will work well for people who have given gender no additional thought while still giving nods to people with an academic and/or personal focus. Something that I particularly loved was the pretty long list of further reading and watching at the end of the book. I am quite excited to dive into other books written by and about trans people.
What more could I ask for out of a memoir? Informative, funny, it made me cry once (a Harry Potter reason but it still counts), and I was so interested in how the story would progress. I think that people with all levels of familiarity with Bird will find this book completely accessible. I would recommend this book to anyone who loves narrative nonfiction, has an interest in learning more about trans experiences, or who was also a Harry Potter kid.

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