The Reckoning

Why Are You Who You Are, and Who Can You Become?

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Pub Date May 30 2023 | Archive Date Apr 01 2024

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Description

Who is currently running your life? The answer—mostly unbeknownst to us—is that none of us operates from a single self. Instead, we unconsciously move between different personas or defender selves, formed in childhood to help protect us from perceived threats that tell us we’re not good enough. In many cases, the defender serves a useful purpose, but it can also be defensive and highly reactive to any experience of criticism, unworthiness, or fear.

The Reckoning is a journey of awakening designed to surface the beliefs, habits, biases, fears, and rationalizations of our defenders that prevent us from being our best. The path to liberation begins with reconnecting to the core self and putting it back in charge of our life. Unlike our defenders, the core self never doubts its intrinsic worth. It doesn’t act from a place of defensiveness. It dedicates its energy to adding value to the world. Simply aligning with it has a powerful impact.

Here, you’ll explore how to:

  • Understand what motivates you
  • Take on resistance to change
  • Embrace all of who you are
  • Increase your productivity
  • Lead others more skillfully and wholeheartedly
  • Live a more satisfying and sustainable life

Over the course of seven in-depth audio sessions, Tony Schwartz and Kimberly Manns reckon with themselves, with each other, and with the fierce challenges we all face in becoming more whole human beings. In the process, they offer a series of frameworks, awareness practices, and behavioral experiments designed to challenge your assumptions, deepen and widen your world, and help you to become more transparent to yourself and others.

Who is currently running your life? The answer—mostly unbeknownst to us—is that none of us operates from a single self. Instead, we unconsciously move between different personas or defender selves...


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ISBN 9781649631633
PRICE $48.99 (USD)

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I feel the Reckoning is a good primer for those starting a self help journey. They share very informative basic techniques for understanding why we react so differently to situations. The age difference between the authors is relevant in the way we look at what we call problems in our lives.

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This Audiobook is so interesting and feels more like a long form podcast than a standard audiobook. I really like the way this audiobook has come together as the subject is quite a touchy subject that does make one feel a little uncomfortable. This was a really insightful audiobook that felt more like friends discussing this topic with you.

This book has definitely given me a lot to think about regarding other around me and the 3 different selves that this book describes. This book will stay with me for a long time to come!

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Overall, I enjoyed this book. I preferred the chapters where both narrators were talking together because it felt more like a conversation rather than someone reading off a note card. The chapters where one narrator would speak about a topic and ask a question, and the next chapter would pick up with the second narrator answering the question, felt disconnected.

Tony Schwartz was a fantastic narrator and it really sounded like he was having a conversation with the listener. At times, Kimberly Manns was giving the same feeling, but at other times, it felt more like she was reading off a notecard in front of her and it became a bit robotic.

The content of the audiobook was informational and I feel like I learned a lot about the different versions of myself.

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