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Holy Hurt

Understanding Spiritual Trauma and the Process of Healing

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Pub Date Apr 15 2025 | Archive Date May 16 2025


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Description

Rebuilding trust, connection, and hope after spiritual trauma

Too often the institutions and communities that are meant to be the most holy in our lives end up deeply hurting us. Religious trauma, spiritual abuse, and faith-based wounds can leave lasting scars that impact every aspect of our lives.

In Holy Hurt, award-winning clinical psychologist Hillary L. McBride delivers a profound message: spiritual trauma is real, widespread, and has far-reaching consequences. More importantly, she provides hope and practical guidance for those seeking healing from religious trauma and spiritual abuse. You'll discover

evidence-based healing strategies rooted in clinical research and trauma therapy techniques;
real stories of recovery from survivors of spiritual abuse and religious trauma;
practices at the end of each chapter designed to support your healing journey;
expert insights from leading trauma therapists, spiritual abuse counselors, and recovery specialists; and
tools for prevention to help create healthier faith communities and protect against spiritual manipulation.

McBride expertly combines clinical research, trauma literature, and compelling interviews with experts to create a comprehensive guide for spiritual trauma recovery. Each chapter includes first-person accounts of healing and practices to help readers process their experiences and begin their journey toward wholeness.

This essential resource empowers trauma survivors, family members, clergy, counselors, and anyone seeking to understand the complex dynamics of spiritual abuse. Whether you're healing from religious trauma, supporting someone who has experienced it, or working to prevent it in faith communities, Holy Hurt offers the clinical expertise and compassionate guidance you need.
Rebuilding trust, connection, and hope after spiritual trauma

Too often the institutions and communities that are meant to be the most holy in our lives end up deeply hurting us. Religious trauma...

Advance Praise

“I expected to feel understood when reading Holy Hurt, but I did not expect to be so thoroughly diagnosed beyond even my own self-awareness that I gently put the book down and made an appointment with my counselor. This particular sentence, ‘We stoke in people an inner critic and tell them it’s the voice of God,’ healed two decades of pain and confusion for me. This will be a source of profound spiritual nurture for essentially everyone I know.”—Jen Hatmaker, New York Times bestselling author; host of the For the Love podcast

“None of us are self-made and self-healed, and Hillary McBride brings many needed voices to an open table for help with mending, including her own valuable experience and gentle expertise. There is really no hurt like spiritual trauma, and McBride ‘un-haunts the house,’ inviting us into a delicate and deliberate healing that is never easy but made possible by this communal gathering of supportive voices.”—J.S. Park, hospital chaplain; author of As Long As You Need: Permission to Grieve

“I expected to feel understood when reading Holy Hurt, but I did not expect to be so thoroughly diagnosed beyond even my own self-awareness that I gently put the book down and made an appointment...

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ISBN 9781587436598
PRICE $22.99 (USD)
PAGES 272

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