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The Missionary Kids

Unmasking the Myths of White Evangelicalism

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Pub Date Aug 19 2025 | Archive Date Not set

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"Historian Fletcher incisively explores the dark underbelly of American evangelical missionary work via the experiences of missionaries' children. . . . Robustly researched and sharply analyzed, it's an illuminating exposé with important implications for evangelical Christianity." —Publishers Weekly, starred review

"Neither a celebration of missionaries nor a hatchet job, this book is insightful and hard-hitting while leaving space for a spectrum of voices to be heard." —Library Journal

What do we learn about white evangelicalism from those raised by its heroes? From historian Holly Berkley Fletcher, herself a missionary kid, comes this first-of-its-kind examination of how the experiences of missionary kids illuminate broader currents in American Christianity.

As sidekicks to their parents' and churches' ambitions, missionary kids (MKs) face questions many white Christians eventually ask: about God's calling, sacrifice, faith, privilege, racism, abuse, and what belonging means. In The Missionary Kids, Fletcher reveals how MKs have intimate access to the movement's logic, longings, and ideals.

With penetrating research, sly wit, and an empathic gaze, Fletcher lays bare complicated emotions and troublesome truths. She investigates how calling, multiculturalism, saints, and indispensability can distract white American Christians from their own tradition's sins and failures. Drawing on her experience as a Southern Baptist MK in Kenya, on conversations with other missionary kids, and on the work of psychologists, historians, missiologists, and researchers, Fletcher paints an intricate portrait of family life on the front lines of the missionary movement. From boarding school to war zones, and from sexual assault by adult missionaries to fending for themselves so as not to distract from the work of the Lord, MKs bear the weight of their parents' choices and their churches' ideals. Fletcher delves into the "missionary industrial complex" that shapes the lives of missionary families, listening to MKs speak of the vexing, wordless longing for the places they've lived.

For many years, few people sought out MKs' real voices. God had called their parents to do great things, so the kids were beside the point. But the children of missionaries are beneficiaries of evangelicalism's rewards and victims of its failings.

And now they are ready to talk.

"Historian Fletcher incisively explores the dark underbelly of American evangelical missionary work via the experiences of missionaries' children. . . . Robustly researched and sharply analyzed, it's...


Advance Praise

"Historian Fletcher incisively explores the dark underbelly of American evangelical missionary work via the experiences of missionaries' children. . . . Robustly researched and sharply analyzed, it's an illuminating exposé with important implications for evangelical Christianity."
Publishers Weekly, starred review

"Neither a celebration of missionaries nor a hatchet job, this book is insightful and hard-hitting while leaving space for a spectrum of voices to be heard."
Library Journal

“It’s long past time for the church to grapple with how we do ‘mission work’ across the globe, and The Missionary Kids is a good wake-up call. Holly Berkley Fletcher, herself a missionary kid, exposes a relatively unpublicized underbelly of mission work—the children taken to unfamiliar locations, disconnected from their parents, and left to fend for themselves all in the name of God.” 
Nancy French, author of Ghosted: An American Story  

“Dr. Berkley Fletcher’s very personal look into the experiences of white evangelical missionary kids (MKs) will leave few readers unprovoked. Many will be provoked to shock and further disillusionment with the white evangelical subculture. Many others will be provoked to defensiveness, protesting about all the people missionaries serve or the many MKs who’ve cherished their experiences. (I found myself provoked in both directions as I read.) Most importantly, however, this book will provoke serious discussion about the blind spots of American Christians and what it really means to love God and love people, within our homes and abroad.” 
Samuel L. Perry, professor of sociology, University of Oklahoma, and author of Religion for Realists and coauthor of Taking America Back for God 

The Missionary Kids mixes sensitive retellings of what happens to children when parents place spiritual calling above the obligation to protect and care for their own kids, within a system of white evangelicalism that holds itself above and often apart from those abroad whom they say they are called to serve.” 
Sarah Stankorb, author of Disobedient Women   

“This sad, aching, beautifully written book is part memoir, part investigative report, part exposé—not just about what it is like to be a missionary kid, but about the distorted, misguided white US evangelical imagination that has produced the missionary enterprise as it now exists. The discussion of sexual predation in overseas missionary contexts is stunning and horrifying. This book is a must-read, and a crucial addition to the post-evangelical literature that is rapidly growing these days.” 
David P. Gushee, professor of Christian ethics, Mercer University, and author of After Evangelicalism and Defending Democracy from Its Christian Enemies  

“Through the keyhole of missionary kids around the globe, Holly Berkley Fletcher provides keen insights not just into evangelical Christianity, but also into America’s political morass in the twenty-first century. A highly readable and enlightening analysis of the intersection of church and politics.” 
Mona Charen, syndicated columnist and policy editor of The Bulwark  

“This book is a must-read wake-up call for the evangelical church! Yes, it details the heart-wrenching realities that missionary kids all too often experience. But more than that, The Missionary Kids is a thorough, insightful critique of evangelicalism as a whole. As Holly Berkley Fletcher explains in detail how and why missionary kids were made to feel expendable, she helps us see how evangelicalism has gone off track too. And she invites those of us who want to cling to Jesus to a faith that doesn’t demand child sacrifice, but instead focuses on flourishing and wholeness. We simply must do better, and this book leads the way.” 
Sheila Wray Gregoire, author of The Great Sex Rescue and host of the Bare Marriage podcast  

“Given recent political and cultural events in our country, readers cannot do enough to understand the complicated and powerful world of white evangelicalism. The Missionary Kids is no exception. As Holly Berkley Fletcher writes, the book exposes the good and the bad, the beautiful and the brutal, and the wondrous and the woeful, from the forgotten perspective of those who often saw it all. America’s former missionary children tell a story of paradox the rest of us best pay attention to and learn from if we want to see real change.” 
Cara Meredith, author of Church Camp  

"Historian Fletcher incisively explores the dark underbelly of American evangelical missionary work via the experiences of missionaries' children. . . . Robustly researched and sharply analyzed, it's...


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At one point in my long evangelical life, I found myself fantasizing about the missionary world. While a paraplegic, I was convinced I had a place serving God in places most people could never imagined.

I never pursued this fantasy. Truthfully, I wasn't built for it. Beyond one brief trip to Haiti (and short-term missions are an entirely other discussion), my ministry life has been here in the United States.

With precision, insight, and sharp analysis, historian Holly Berkley Fletcher, herself a "missionary kid" or MK, explores this world evangelical missionary work specifically focusing on the experiences of the children of missionaries.

Fletcher unveils, over and over again, how the experiences of these MKs illuminate the broader currents present in American Christianity. This book is neither as dark as you might expect it to be, though it gets mighty dark at times, nor the celebration that those who nearly idolize evangelical missionaries might want it to be. Instead, it's, well, historical. It's constantly insightful, occasionally disturbing, frequently revealing, and fiercely thought-provoking from beginning to end. Written from a perspective of historical analysis, "The Missionary Kids" lacks the emotional resonance, at least for the most part, that might make it a more engaging read yet is also a book destined to be explored by clergy, theologians, and seminarians for years to come.

This is a world worthy of exploration and Fletcher explores it.

Fletcher doesn't hold back from diving deep into areas faced by MKs - God's calling, racism, privilege, faith, and most starkly abuse. Fletcher explores the mechanisms behind white evangelicalism by interviewing some of those most directly impacted by it. The end result is simultaneously compassionate and jarring.

A Southern Baptist MK in Kenya, Fletcher reveals how calling, multiculturalism, saints, and indispensability can allow for distraction from the weaknesses of the movement. Fletcher captures the weight carried by MKs, portraying family life amidst the "missionary industrial complex" and a world where one does not distract from the work of the Lord often at the cost of sexual abuse, relationships, and simple human connection.

In a movement that often raises up those who are called into the missionary world, the children often become sacrificed as if Isaac. Holly Berkley Fletcher powerfully unmasks the myths of white evangelicalism while also giving voice to MKs who've often been expected to remain silent.

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Holly Berkley Fletcher’s Missionary Kids is a captivating narrative on evangelicalism, the notions of white saviourhood, and the twisty ways the Christian church’s mission work buried years of abuse.

Beyond the message of missionary kids, Fletcher’s storytelling is enlightening, aggravating and rich. Her open theology of “you do not have to be sure about who you are or who God is, or even if God is, to form community with others (p. 252).” Her story is a coming of age narrative that takes place in American Christianity - but it’s the American Christianity that is becoming more apparent. It’s loud, controlling and overzealous (former church kid, so I’ve been there). Through extensive research and interviews with former missionary kids, Fletcher weaves through challenging topics of racism, abuse, sexual violence, and neglect which many missionary kids may have experienced at homes or schools.

I appreciate Fletcher’s writing as she often recognizes her own background, identifying that she has biases (i.e., while citing corruption in world aid organizations, she highlights she has a World Vision sponsor child).

As an aside, as someone who remembers being referred to as a squeezed tube of toothpaste that cannot be reverted back to its original form I am pissed that purity culture flowers made its way to Africa. When the author is bold enough to suggest The Doctrine of Inerrancy is a “power hoarding device” I think that somehow this book needs to be a bigger deal, especially today.

Two points of feedback, which considering the publication date, I recognize I am late on: when it is indicated you have made your way to the school and “there was not even a phone” this is repeated a few times over pgs. 171-173 and may be a bit repetitive. The second point comes from pg. 125, when citing the Doctrine of Inerrency the text I have says “institutes writ large“ and I am wondering if that is meant to be “at large”.

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The Missionary Kids by Holly Berkley Fletcher comes out August 19, 2025
5🌟/5🌟

This is a interesting and quick read. Drawing from her own experience as a missionary kid (MK), interviews with other MKs, and her expertise as a historian, Holly Berkley Fletcher critically examines the white, American evangelical missionary complex. Woven throughout her personal stories is a powerful analysis of the missions system—including mission boards, theological frameworks, and the structures that have perpetuated harm and abuse.

It's long past time for the white, American evangelical church to reckon with the racism and abuse embedded in its institutions, including the world of missions. This book is a bold step in that direction. The voices of MKs are rising, exposing broken systems—and we must not look away.

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