The Insider Guide to PDA

by Sally Cat; Brook Madera

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Pub Date Jan 21 2026 | Archive Date Jan 31 2026

Health, Mind & Body | Parenting, Families, Relationships

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Description

"Don't tell me what to do" - everyone's said it (or thought it!), but for the PDA brain it's a tenet that makes everyday tasks a constant challenge. Whether it's a request from a friend or a social expectation to do something, pathological demand avoidance can throw a bucket of ice water on your motivation, or create anxiety that builds up and boils over as a meltdown.

In this essential primer, PDAers Sally Cat and Brook Madera explain what PDA is, how it manifests, and what you can do to minimise its impact. They explore its interaction with other forms of neurodivergence, potential misdiagnosis as a multitude of other conditions and disorders, and how it actually feels in reality. They also highlight the positives of PDA life, as shared by other PDAers and their loved ones.

Whether you're a PDAer yourself, or know one and want to support them, this Insider Guide will help you understand what PDA is and how to live with it.

Advance Praise

Diane Gould, Founder & Executive Director PDA North America

It was a privilege to read The Insider's Guide to PDA by Sally Cat and Brook Madera. They are both such talented individuals and leaders in the PDA community. They share their experiences and beliefs about PDA in this well-named book that covers so much.

Chris Wenger, a.k.a. Speech Dude, neurodiversity-affirming speech-language pathologist

This guide is essential for anyone who wants to move beyond outdated, behavior-based interpretations of PDA. It fills a crucial gap by revealing the nervous-system roots of PDA and offering an affirming, relationship-centered path toward safety, connection, and growth.

Kathleen Duncan, LMFT, An Autistic Guide

I'd like to give this book a HUGE standing ovation! It is a beautiful, straight forward and timely exploration of PDA that honors our community, guides professionals, and can educate our loved ones with the hope of facilitating neurotype affirming community and care for us all.

Diane Gould, Founder & Executive Director PDA North America

It was a privilege to read The Insider's Guide to PDA by Sally Cat and Brook Madera. They are both such talented individuals and leaders...

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EDITION	Paperback
ISBN	9781399830690
PRICE	£14.99 (GBP)
PAGES	176

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