I was grateful to receive an advanced reader copy of Adult Children of Emotionally Abusive Parents by Beverly Engel. This insightful and well-written book provides a clear and accessible look at the lasting impact of emotional abuse within families. Engel does an excellent job breaking down complex concepts into easy-to-understand themes, making the book both informative and practical for readers and professionals alike.

As a practitioner, I found this book especially valuable. It offers a deeper understanding of how abusive family patterns develop and how they affect every member of the family system, including both adults and children. Engel thoughtfully explores the ways emotional abuse can shape relationships, self-esteem, and overall emotional well-being, often carrying into adulthood.

One of the book's greatest strengths is its discussion of the trauma that can result when families become entrenched in abusive dynamics. Through compassionate and insightful explanations, Engel helps readers recognize these patterns and understand their long-term effects. She also provides guidance for healing and breaking unhealthy cycles.

Review of advance ready copy from NetGalley.

This book was clearly written and easy to read. With simple definitions of key terms, easy to follow bullet point lists, and a variety of different topics, this was a great book. I really appreciated the straightforward exercises included throughout the book.

I have learned so much from this author and her books. I was honored to receive an Arc of her newest book. This was so insightful and thought provoking!

Adult Children of Emotionally Abusive Families • Beverly Engel

One phrase: when the family is the storm 🌧️

This sounds like such an important and validating read.

Adult Children of Emotionally Abusive Families explores how emotional abuse does not just affect one relationship, it shapes entire family systems. Criticism, control, shame, tension, and conflict can become so normalized that children grow up carrying pain they may not even have language for yet.

I appreciate that this book seems to balance compassion with practical tools. It is not just about naming the harm, but understanding the cycle, recognizing toxic patterns, and beginning to heal from what happened inside the family system.

The line that really hit me is the idea that a healthy family should be a port in the storm, but some families become the storm itself.

Oof.

✨ Vibes:
🌧 emotional abuse recovery
🧠 family systems
💔 childhood trauma
🫶 healing tools
📖 case studies
🔎 self reflection
✨ validation and growth

📚 Read this if you like:
Trauma recovery books, family systems work, emotional abuse education, reflective nonfiction, and resources that help put words to painful childhood experiences.

This sounds compassionate, clear, and deeply necessary.

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Beverly Engel’s Adult Children of Emotionally Abusive Families is a compassionate and insightful guide for anyone trying to understand the pain of growing up in a toxic family. The book explains how emotional abuse, gaslighting, criticism, neglect, scapegoating, and sibling abuse can deeply affect a person’s self-worth and relationships. Engel offers validation to survivors by helping them recognize that what they experienced was real and not their fault. Through real-life examples, questionnaires, checklists, and healing exercises, the book provides practical tools for recovery. It also encourages readers to set healthy boundaries, break harmful family patterns, and create a more peaceful future. For anyone seeking clarity, comfort, and healing, I highly recommend it.

Thank you to NetGalley, the author, and publisher St. Martin’s Press for the eARC of this 5-star read. This book explains how growing up in an emotionally abusive family can shape how you think, feel, and relate to others long into adulthood. Beverly Engel breaks down a type of trauma that many people struggle to name, using clear language and a kind, understanding tone. What makes this book stand out is how practical it is. It includes real-life examples, simple exercises, and helpful tools to guide readers through recognizing unhealthy dynamics and starting to heal. Topics like sibling abuse, silence within families, and rebuilding your self-image are handled with care and honesty. It’s an emotional but empowering read that gives you a path forward—highly recommended for anyone ready to understand their past and create a healthier future.

Beverly! The incredible woman that you are. *Adult Children of Emotionally Abusive Families* comprehensively addresses childhood abuse within dysfunctional family dynamics. Presented as a workbook, Engel’s writing is accessible and engaging. She responds to difficult questions with clarity and empathy, incorporating trauma-informed practices to guide readers through the material. Engel defines key concepts, provides explanations, and includes case studies to support her insights and illustrate various situations. Readers will find themselves reflecting, setting goals, and actively processing their experiences. Whether you have read *Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents* or are exploring your trauma for the first time, I highly recommend this resource as a valuable addition to your therapeutic toolkit. I received an ARC copy through NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.