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Pub Date Dec 15 2026 | Archive Date Dec 15 2026


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KIRKUS totes THE GEOGRAPHY OF SAYING GOODBYE as "A fleet-footed romp of a book with some sneakily perceptive insights into larger human questions."

On her deathbed, Paul Canton’s mother declares she’s bound for the Alboran Sea. The nurses dismiss it as nonsense, but the next morning she vanishes, along with her son’s credit card. Paul, who finds leaving his comfort zone “more terrifying than the Third Battle of Nanking,” sets off across continents in a quixotic pursuit, desperate for one last chance to say goodbye. Only, the farther he travels, the less he understands the woman who raised him, and the more he realizes how little he’s actually lived.

Wry and tender in equal measure, THE GEOGRAPHY OF SAYING GOODBYE blends humor with lyrical observation in a story about family and mortality, yes, but also about learning how to live. 

KIRKUS totes THE GEOGRAPHY OF SAYING GOODBYE as "A fleet-footed romp of a book with some sneakily perceptive insights into larger human questions."

On her deathbed, Paul Canton’s mother declares she’s...


A Note From the Publisher

ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Trevor J. Houser is the author of Pacific (2021) and The Prumont Method (2023). A finalist for the Next Generation Indie Book Awards and the Eric Hoffer Grand Prize, he lives in Seattle with his wife and two children, where he works in advertising. The Geography of Saying Goodbye is his third novel.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Trevor J. Houser is the author of Pacific (2021) and The Prumont Method (2023). A finalist for the Next Generation Indie Book Awards and the Eric Hoffer Grand Prize, he lives in...


Advance Praise

“Houser’s prose is intensely metaphorical, reflective, and marked by a sharp, tragi-comic wit.” —Publishers Weekly's Booklife

"A fleet-footed romp of a book with some sneakily perceptive insights into larger human questions." —Kirkus

“Beautifully written, with gems of insight on every page, The Geography of Saying Goodbye has worlds to say about children and parents, freedom and constraint—urgent yet quietly comic, just this side of absurd.” —Kevin Brockmeier, author of The Ghost Variations

"Who are our mothers? How do we live without them when they’re gone? Trevor J. Houser transforms these impossible questions into a death-defying narrative that never flags, that brims with life, that turns itself inside out just when you think you know what’s coming. A high-wire act of a novel, as wacky as it is tender and grave, with a stand-up comic’s sense of timing." —Paul Lisicky, author of Song So Wild and Blue

The Geography of Saying Goodbye is a funny and devastating novel about the impossible math of losing a parent. Houser has a rare gift for finding the absurd at life’s exact center.” —Peter Mountford, author of A Young Man’s Guide to Late Capitalism and The Dismal Science

“Houser’s prose is intensely metaphorical, reflective, and marked by a sharp, tragi-comic wit.” —Publishers Weekly's Booklife

"A fleet-footed romp of a book with some sneakily perceptive insights into...


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I really enjoyed reading this book and going on the journey with the main character. This story is not very believable at all but that didn't stop me enjoying the life lessons that jump from these pages. It is told in a rather different way and makes you think about your own relationships with faily members.

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*The Geography of Saying Goodbye* by Trevor J. Houser is an emotional, thought-provoking novel that blends humor, adventure, and heartfelt reflection. Following a son’s search for his runaway, terminally ill mother, the story explores grief, family, and the courage to truly live. Houser balances quirky, unpredictable moments with genuine emotional depth, creating a moving journey about love, loss, and second chances. It’s an unforgettable read that lingers long after the final page.

My only problem with the manuscript is the redacted/blocked out information. That made the book hard to read sometimes. Nevertheless, it was a good, deep read.

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What a fantastic read!

The book is described as a son's search for a mother who disappears from her hospice facility of her own volition and heads across continent and ocean. She has taken his credit card and any expectations he had about her imminent end of life. Perhaps, if read as a page-turner it is, the book is simply a son's fascinating journey to locate his mother culminating in an expected end.

Or it isn't.

The book's hidden meaning revealed itself quickly to me. The son's journey doesn't appear to be a search for his mother rather a quest to understand her impact on his life. It is as much a hallucination he experiences, quite possibly from the hospice bed itself holding his dying mother's hand as it is a fantastic journey of planes, trains, automobiles, cruise ships and yachts.

He meets his ex-wife, a fantasy woman, children, sister, his mother's friends and acquaintances, maybe even past lovers. He begins to understand points of view forgotten or ignored. He realizes his mistakes in moments of clarity. And finds crevasses of his heart and mind he didn't know existed.

High school calculus class in India assigned a Russian book of problems from Mir Publications that had page after page of dense text outlining calculus questions. I think this book literally has more question marks than the calculus text from Russia. The son's journey, told through sentences, paragraphs, and chapters of questions is reflective for the reader. The author nudges this reflection without being professorial or instructive - he simply presents the questions. In plain speak. And stops the reader dead in their tracks.

It took me nearly four days to read and digest this book when its short length and uncomplicated text barely required four hours.

This is not a self-help book but might just open doorways and windows into the soul. An awesome read.

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