On Our Knees
Loving Your Life Even When You Hate What's Happening
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Pub Date Aug 25 2026 | Archive Date Aug 15 2026
Hay House | Hay House LLC
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Description
You have been strong for so long. You have managed, adapted, optimized, and soldiered on. You have said I'm fine so many times that you've almost convinced yourself it's true.
But you know what's happening. The world is crumbling. Your carefully constructed life may be too. And somewhere inside you, a voice you've been trained to ignore is asking a question you're not sure you're allowed to answer: What if surrendering is not defeat—but the most powerful thing you have ever done?
In On Our Knees, the New York Times best-selling author of Pussy: A Reclamation faces this question head-on. On Our Knees is Regena Thomashauer's reckoning—with loss, with darkness, with the goddess, and with herself—in the most daring, most intimate, and most essential book of her life.
Weaving her own raw, unsparing story with ten goddess archetypes—Aphrodite, Kali, Inanna, Lilith, Psyche, and more—Mama Gena reveals the hidden curriculum of every woman's darkest chapter: That surrender is not the end of power. It is the doorway to it.
Inside this book, you will discover:
- Why the word Fine is formaldehyde for a woman's soul and the pleasure practice that breaks the spell
- The erotic science behind why pleasure is not indulgence, but the most radical act of healing available to women today
- Ten goddess archetypes—each a map for a different kind of undoing: heartbreak, rage, exile, the mother wound, the longing for love
- The "Courtesan's Journey"—Mama Gena's most powerful teaching on eroticizing your darkest material into unstoppable forward momentum
- Embodied "Initiations" at the end of every chapter—rituals to move what's stuck in your body and alchemize grief, rage, and loss into power
- Why the collapse you are living through right now is not punishment—it is the making of the most turned-on, most sovereign woman you have ever been
This is not a book about surviving your life. It is a book about being undone by it — and discovering, in that undoing, a feminine power so ancient, so vast, and so shockingly alive that nothing will ever look the same again.
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| EDITION | Ebook |
| ISBN | 9798318602108 |
| PRICE | $17.99 (USD) |
| PAGES | 288 |
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Reviewer 2029700
This was a beautiful and powerful read that really made me reflect. I loved the honesty and vulnerability throughout the book and the reminder that we don’t have to hide the difficult parts of ourselves. The message of embracing change, surrender, and personal growth really resonated with me.
This book gave me a lot to think about, and I found myself returning to certain passages because they felt meaningful and uplifting. A truly impactful read that I know I’ll carry with me.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for providing me with an advance copy in exchange for my honest review.
A much needed book right now. Life is HARD, and I think so many of us have gotten so used to just saying "I'm fine" while pushing through, and trying to be strong all the time. This book is a reminder that surrendering isn't giving up, but it can actually be one of the strongest things you ever do.
This one really hit home for me because I went through my own journey of finally breaking after trying to be strong for so long. Asking for help, accepting help, and realizing I couldn't do everything on my own ended up being one of the best things I've ever done. I don't see that as weakness anymore, but I see it as strength. We all need support sometimes, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. We truly can't pour from an empty cup. We have to take care of ourselves before we can take care of everyone else. I also loved the idea that the hardest seasons of our lives aren't meant to break us, but they're shaping us into stronger, more resilient versions of ourselves.
I loved how the author blends her own story with different goddess archetypes and themes of grief, loss, healing, rage, and self-discovery in a way that encourages us to embrace every part of ourselves and not just the polished, "I'm fine" version. I think this is a book that will resonate with a lot of people, especially with everything happening in the world right now.
Absolutely riveting and introspective, Regena weaves an interesting tapestry that allows the reader to learn and unlearn collectively. Groundbreaking book that is not afraid to take risk that yields a satisfying payout
Multiple times while I was reading this, I had to close my kindle, stand up and walk around; this book hit me just like the proverbial ton of bricks. Wow. After a year that has been to hell and back, this book could not have come at a more perfect time for this particular reader (blessings to Ms Thomashauer❤️) and this book resonated with me in ways I didn’t know was possible.
I will be making a point to read every other book that Mama Gena has written and I recommend this to every woman out there. Especially the ones who’ve had dark long nights, and pain that felt deeper than the Mariana Trench. This book is amazing; this is one that is going on my personal top books of the year, I’m buying the audiobook, I want my daughters to read this, and yours too, and I’ll be recommending this one for the rest of my life.
Thank you to Hay House and NetGalley for the DRC
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