Prodependence

Moving Beyond Codependency

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Pub Date Sep 18 2018 | Archive Date Apr 10 2019

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Description

Do you love an addict? Do you sometimes feel like their addiction is your fault? Are people calling you codependent? If our treatment toward loved ones of addicts alienates them, it's time we change our approach.

With Prodependence, Dr. Robert Weiss offers us the first fully new paradigm in over 35 years for helping those who love and care for addicts. An attachment-focused model, prodependence recognizes that no one can ever love too much, nor should anyone be pathologized for whomever they choose to love as is often the case. Prodependence informs caregivers how to love more effectively, but without having to bear a negative label for the valuable support they give. When treating loved ones of addicts and other troubled people using prodependence, we need not find something "wrong" with them. Instead, we acknowledge the trauma and inherent dysfunction that occurs when living in relationship with someone whose life is failing and keep moving forward. Validating a caregiver's painful journey for what it is opens the door to support them in useful, non-shaming ways.

Helping people take incremental, positive steps toward intimate healing is what Prodependence is all about!

Do you love an addict? Do you sometimes feel like their addiction is your fault? Are people calling you codependent? If our treatment toward loved ones of addicts alienates them, it's time we change...


A Note From the Publisher

The time has come to stop pathologizing the desire to love, help, and care for an addicted loved one.

The time has come to stop pathologizing the desire to love, help, and care for an addicted loved one.


Advance Praise

"Removing codependence and addiction from the list of diseases that afflict humankind and seeing their cause as responses to overwhelming life conditions rehumanizes those who suffer—both addicts and those who love them. This approach rightly acknowledges them as co-participants in the human journey rather than objects of analysis and treatment. In Prodependence, Robert Weiss has not only created a new term but has also boldly challenged the cultural practice of negatively labeling those in service to others. He shows that by doing so, we devalue their selfless efforts and amplify their suffering. This groundbreaking book is a call to awaken from the old way of thinking to find new and positive methods. We recommend it to all mental-health providers and to those whose mental health will improve by reading it.'"

—Harville Hendrix, PhD and Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD, coauthors of Getting the Love You Want and The Space Between

"Prodependence provides a refreshing, empathetic, and practical approach to understanding partners and families of addicts, and how best to help them learn how to handle their difficult situation. Avoiding the classic split between the trauma and codependency models, Weiss uses the framework of attachment theory to avoid blaming partners and pathologizing their behavior. Instead, he validates and reframes their efforts and provides techniques for helping them heal, improve their self-care, set appropriate boundaries for their own behavior, and deal with their challenges. This beautifully written book is must-reading for all those who love an addict, as well as all mental health professionals." 

 Jennifer Schneider, MD, author of Back from Betrayal: Recovering from the Trauma of Infidelity



"Removing codependence and addiction from the list of diseases that afflict humankind and seeing their cause as responses to overwhelming life conditions rehumanizes those who suffer—both...


Marketing Plan


  • Author is active on social media, reaching 15,000 Twitter followers and just under 10,000 on Facebook.
  • Weiss regularly blogs for MindBodyGreen, which reaches millions, as well as Psychology Today.
  • Author is a highly sought-out speaker on perpetual lecture tour.
  • Professional publicist will assist with Prodependence.
  • Early reviews in trade media.
  • Weiss is a veteran television guest and will appear on national TV.



  • Author is active on social media, reaching 15,000 Twitter followers and just under 10,000 on Facebook.
  • Weiss regularly blogs for MindBodyGreen...

Available Editions

EDITION Other Format
ISBN 9780757320354
PRICE $15.95 (USD)
PAGES 216

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Featured Reviews

Robert Weiss’ “Prodependence” is a must read for those who are wanting to learn about the fine dance between dependence and autonomy and more importantly becoming our best selves in relationship with others. So often you hear people downplaying the role of attachments for an illusory, hyper-masculine attitude of self-sufficiency and doing-it-alone approach to life. With wisdom and compassion, Robert offers a paradigm-shifting book that shows us how to love and be loved, and in turn, change the world for the better.

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