I'm Not Trying To Be Difficult
Stories from the Restaurant Trenches
by Drew Nieporent
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Pub Date Sep 23 2025 | Archive Date Not set
Description
A middle class kid from New York’s East Side, Drew spends his childhood tagging along with his father to help restaurants get their liquor license, igniting a lifelong obsession with food. His passion takes him on a winding, continent-spanning journey, crossing paths with legendary chefs, iconic athletes, and movie stars as he grows into one of the most influential names in the culinary world. From waiting tables on a cruise ship to getting his first three-star review; from squabbling with Cornell professors to partnering with Robert DeNiro; this is more than a story of one man’s extraordinary life—it’s a story of an evolving industry. As culinary trends come and go, and relationships blossom and combust, Nieporent navigates it all with a simple yet powerful philosophy: give the customer what they want.
Told in Drew’s unforgettable voice, I’m Not Trying To Be Difficult is a rollicking memoir that feels like sitting across the dinner table from someone who has seen it all—one of the last great restaurateurs.
Available Editions
EDITION | Other Format |
ISBN | 9781538765579 |
PRICE | $30.00 (USD) |
PAGES | 288 |
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Featured Reviews

4.5 stars
This one is definitely for all my fellow readers and friends who love themselves some restaurant/food memoirs. Nieporent wasn’t a name I was familiar with but I certainly know his work as he worked at Tavern on the Green, (back when it was cooler) before he took a huge leap, starting Montrachet (with only 225K!), then Tribeca Grill with Robert DeNiro, Rubicon in San Francisco and, big finish, a little place called Nobu….maybe you’ve heard of it. And that is just to name a few.
So, he always knew, even as a kid, that he wanted to be in the restaurant business (which probably made him a slightly odd kid, but it worked for him.) He’s an incredibly hard worker, not too crazy, and his vice was food, not drugs. This is a must read for those of us who crave restaurant lore. Recommended.

This was a great feel good read. I love the culinary scene and thoroughly enjoyed reading how Drew started his empire and became a staple figure in the New York dining scene. Reading it felt like I was sitting across a restaurant table with a glass of wine listening to Drew effortlessly share his story.
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