When They Go Low, We Go Highball
Fifty Cocktails for Smashing the Patriarchy
by Leslie Miller, Shantelle Pace (Foreword)
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Pub Date Apr 14 2026 | Archive Date Jan 28 2026
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Description
A glass of empowerment is best served straight up.
Tired of mansplaining? Ready to smile when—and only when—you feel like it? Cheers to that! It’s time to celebrate the ladies who lift you up and roast the societal expectations that bring you down.
When They Go Low, We Go Highball features all your favorite tipples, but with a feminist twist—from a Mai Time Has Come to a Cointreau v. Wade to a Catcall Crusher—plus all-new concoctions to refresh, delight, and fuel your inner fire. Sip an Old-Fashioned: Nineteenth Amendment Edition, or stir up a pitcher of Aperol Spritzerhoods to share with your book club, your cat ladies, and all the important women in your life.
With fifty easy-to-make cocktails and mocktails, you’ll be toasting to a female future in no time, so gather your coven, stock up your home bar, and get ready to smash that patriarchy.
A Note From the Publisher
Leslie Miller is the author and editor of various cookbooks and lifestyle books, including Uncle Dave’s Cow: And Other Whole Animals My Freezer Has Known, Ethan Stowell’s New Italian Kitchen, and the collection Women Who Eat. She lives—and drinks Negronis—in Seattle.
Shantelle Pace, known online as She The Bartender, is a bartender and creator with an online community of more than 200,000 followers across social platforms. After leaving a leadership role in corporate America, she pursued bartending full time, pairing recipes with bold storytelling that centers women and challenges outdated ideas about gender, power, and identity. Her work has led to collaborations with leading spirit brands and recognition across major cities. With her belief in existing loudly, her journey is rooted in the mantra she wears as a tattoo: “Prove Them Wrong.”
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- Featuring a foreword by Shantelle Pace, she-the bartender, with 88.6k followers on Instagram
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Available Editions
| EDITION | Hardcover |
| ISBN | 9781967510245 |
| PRICE | $17.95 (USD) |
| PAGES | 128 |
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Featured Reviews
This book had me the second I read “Mansplaining” and it only got better from there. I absolutely mapped out a list of drinks that I will be making my girlfriends come to visit but best of all? I know what all of my girlfriends are getting for their birthdays throughout this coming year!
Megan M, Librarian
I love this book so much. SO much. Oh my god, so much.
Between the amazing names for the drinks (Who are you calling a horchata? and Well-behaved women rarely make daquiris) and the incredible descriptions of the drinks and the reasoning of why they were called what they were with little tie ins to history, this book is just incredible. I love the quotes from famous feminist books, authors, and strong women and the even the introduction that was beautifully written.
This book should be on everyone's list to check out when it comes out. It's one of the most fun cookbooks I've seen in a while. I don't usually find myself reading the intros either to recipes or to the book itself, this one I found myself doing the exact opposite.
This cocktail recipe book is equal parts cheeky and inspirational, mixing inspirational quotes and women's history facts into the pun-filled cocktail recipes. For example, you will find inspiring messages like: “Oh, Michelle. We aspire to your intellect, your poise, your power, and your arms. And often fall short. But “when they go low, we go high” will never stop being the right advice, the voice of our own better angel." Followed up by a gin and tonic recipe called "When They Go Low, We Go Highball." `i appreciated that there were a few N/A cocktails for our sober and sober-curious friends. The book ends with some helpful mixer recipes, garnish and tool tips. Finally, there are tips for `'`Putting Action Into Practice" with inspiration for connecting with community and advocacy (pared with cocktails). There are some bar tools that folks with new home bars might need to purchase (muddlers, etc), but it's nothing crazy that you are only likely to use once. Ultimately, I think this is a fun, informative book that would make a great gift for your gal friends!
Thanks to NetGalley and Flashpoint Books for providing me with an advanced reader copy in exchange for an honest review. Cheers!
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